patabang lang ko unsa inyo ma suggest ani ako gubot na sitwasyon nasudlan. im inlove sa usa ka girl with a 4-month old baby for about two months already now. the problem kay ang father sa baby kay naa ra gihapon supporting pero di sila minyo, and di pud sila live-in. wa makigminyo ang girl coz di na nya love ang guy,di sila magkasinabot etc etc daw.. na realize nya when she got pregnant pa, so mao ni iya sulti nako. we get to go out often, do things together all the loving and romancing stuffs. the sad note kay di man sila buwag with this guy even if they both are having a hard time sa ila relationship coz sige sila way, di sila magkasinabot etc.the only thing holding them kay ang baby ra jud. the last time nagaway mi about sa ila relationship sa father, i mean to settle things sa iya side like maybe tell the guy na makig break sya or somthing ang let her free to love someone else kay di naman kaha nya love, it was the day na i can see in her face drawn all over na she was afraid i would leave her,and she indeed said this to me,in some way.
now and ako gikabalak-an kay mahug "secret" man gud amo relationship. i mean not totally free. mahug kog kabit or something.. but i really do love the girl and im sure she is too but she must be bit confused mao di sya makasulti sa guy even before she met me. i was wondering how i can handle this situation. i would want things to work somehow. i know the fathers rule sa baby incase magbuwag just sila and im well aware and prepared for that. but i just want views or insites sa mga experts out there, aside from suggesting na akong relationship is a big "RED FLAG"..
thanks..............