it's never gonna be the same again..
kai ang isa bitter...
I think the question being imposed is "LOVERS also being FRIENDS" and NOT "ex-lovers"
Lovers can be the best of friends. A healthy relationship can be very diverse and rewarding if it blooms into its fullest potential. It takes a certain amount of open-mindedness, maturity, and commitment to be able to go through this phase in a relationship. A guy can be a Father-like image to the girl when he tries to talk to her (gently) of the things she is immature about and help her grow into a full woman she is destined to be. He can be the bestfriend who listens (without a word to say) to her never-ending rants with just about anything in her restless mind. Love in this kind of relationship can be very reassuring and lasting. It simply needs a lot of work and genuine love... and this goes both ways.
sa bitter na ex-lover... "Why Can't We Be Friends"
..for me, it's hard to pretend to be friends with someone special when every time you look at them, all you see is everything you ever wanted..
I can't say they can never be friends, all I know is that its difficult, tendency kasi hinuhukay parin nila ung past at mahihirapan silang pareho na mag move on.
friends can be lovers but not the other way around...
there are just too much things better left unsaid... pero pwde ra baya mo mag friends ghapon after.. depende ra pud na giunsa ninyo pag buwag...
if nagbuwag mo in good terms with each other.. then friends ghapon mo hangtod minyo na mo sa lain lain spouses
I agree with you jay. there are just some people na di maiwasan maging bitter.
maybe we should say mature lovers can be friends? but not immature lovers? subjective man kaau ni. hehe
naa juy usa na masakitan na d na kaaccept.. hehehe..
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