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[sheka]

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okey got cha that is your decision and hope..

that is my only best advise nimo dude... (find someone else)
Just be ready what ever happens kai if you success; good, but if you fail; its worth dying on a cross (joke... basta sakit)...

sayon muingon na ngitag lain. pero ikaw mismo siguro maglisod

[jancemsy]

sayon muingon na ngitag lain. pero ikaw mismo siguro maglisod

ako?

Kasulay nako na heart broken ko b4 and I just did what I have to do..

Pro sa akong case dugay sad before ko naka recover. And right after sa recovery, I realized that If
only I knew right from the start how to get out of it, wla na kuntay problema or wala untay damage....

For sure mag lisod, pro kinahanglan buhaton ang angay buhaton....

peace

[sheka]

ako?

Kasulay nako na heart broken ko b4....

uu ikaw.. hehe

[koto]

okey got cha, that is your decision and I can see you are hoping...


You said you will keep on trying untill she realize how much you love her..
There are some person will not be affected ani na butang...

that is my only best advise nimo dude... (find someone else)

Just be ready what ever happens kai if you success; good, but if you fail; its worth dying on a cross (joke... basta sakit)...

well if ingana gyud ka sakit i better accept it like a friend, bring it on!!!

[rey04]

when we became intimate no one from our friends noticed it because sekreto kaayo ako courting niya. sa imo case saun na hinuon kaayo coz she knows na that you had a crush on her because sa mga sungog2x. if wala siya reaction sa mga sungog2x then God knows that she like you too. ikaw lang gyud ang bayot , hehehe.....

@rey

hehehe di pud mada ug text bro ky busy pd cya pero wa nmn pud... di cya kabusted nko, I QUIT!!... lisud kau iporma oi iyng barkada ng sorround namu tga lingi lng gmay nko nya sungog dayn nya samukan ko ana mrg dghan gbntay sa ako lihuk mao na di nlng ko taptapan nlng ni nko akng mata pra di ko ktn.aw nya...

[the_guardian]

i met this guy in a friend's b-day party and we've been going out now for months. the problem is that i didnt told my parents, relatives and my friends about it...nobody who does really know's me in person knows about it...they usually tawt that i never had a relationship before but the truth is that i already had 2 in the past...though none lasted for more than a week...except for this guy. the truth is that i was afraid about what other people's expectations about him...he's not really a somebody...he's not a professional...he graduated but only works in an internet cafe...his family is not that well off, infact they too have financial difficulties...i tried to convince him to look for another job, but he had this job interview phobia already...he's not the ideal guy everybody expected for me...but i like him...we're not totally compatible nor did we have this perfect relationship...but we tried working it out...most of the time we fight over my jelousy even though i know he's faithful...selosa kaayo ko most of the times that we almost broke up ...sometimes we also fight over his status in life...that he cant provide me much...that sometimes, im the one who pays when we go out...

i dont know why but i know this guy is not perfect...but im happy when im with him...
he made me smile when not in the mood...he introduce me to his parents without hesitation...
i made him cry yet he still forgives me...i throw tantrums at him and yet i woke up with him watching me asleep...
i dont want our relationship to end...yet i have this feeling it is about to...

pls help me....1)how to keep this relationship strong... 2) how to convince him to find a job...3) how to tell people about us...

[jugs_06]

1)how to keep this relationship strong

the relationship IS strong.. you're happy, what else can you ask for..

2) how to convince him to find a job

convince him to find a job..

3) how to tell people about us

just tell them.. no if's or but's..

[monrose29]

the guardian:

don`t be afraid girl, natural jud na sa parents ang mo react labi na walay work imong bf, but remember they have the right to know nga na-a nakay uyab, deli tungod kay nang hilabot sila nmo but bcoz imo silang family, yes it can be a bad shoot sa imong bf tungod sa iyang status karon, but kay u love him then u fight for that feeling ipakita ninyo sa mga tawo nga sayop sila ilang pag tan-aw..

ana jud na girl kong love na gali, u have to sacrifice, masakitan, mo hilak, natural lang na sa relationship, ang ako lang ika advice nmo, ang kalipay sa tawo na-a ra bay limitations or lets say kanang lumalabay lang bahh, as what u said problema jud mo sa financial kay wala syay work pero happy man ka cge.. ok lang nmo ikaw gasto... kay lagi in love ka.... kani ra bang inlove daghan ka ayo na desgrasya.. imbis kalipay.. nagmahay na n0-on...

straight to the point kay lagi inlove mo each other basin kong di mo maka pugong sa inyong gi bate og mo abot mo sa situation nga deli jud unta dapat.. og ma buntis ka... ok ra nmo ikaw mo gasto?

di bahh kani ako-a pag pangandam lang girl, simbako lang bahh, deli ra ba gyud nato mahibaw-an ang dagan sa panahon... at first gunit lang to sa kamot.. next week lain nay gunitan..

friendly reminder lang na girl, ok....ayaw padala anang imong kalipay.. dapat kay di na mag dugay og mo labay ra nahh, forced him to find a better job or else magka letse2x inyong relationship..

deli na tawn uso karon ang bisan saging basta loving... ako gali nga wa koy uyab mag lisod gali kog buhi sa akong ka ugalingon...



good luck....

[rey04]

very well said....

1)how to keep this relationship strong

the relationship IS strong.. you're happy, what else can you ask for..

2) how to convince him to find a job

convince him to find a job..

3) how to tell people about us

just tell them.. no if's or but's..

[n`gel]

I agree with jugs and monrose...

The very important thing is be cautious... that is if you're intimate with him na... use protection gyud kay lisud na kaayo bitaw magkababy mo unsaon na lang. Anha na ka magbasul. Sometimes we say... 'nah it doesn't really matter what's important is we love each other so much' but you've been with him not for a very long time yet so ang emotional stability (which for me holds more gravity than financial stability) is still young. Take your time... don't take him too seriously... nga as in magminyo namo.

Lahi man nang moingon ta brb ako baby nimata.

to be continued... teheh malasa... ***but i love my leah