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[n`gel]

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well this one is tough too...

unless of course he wants to make it official and tell the LDR girlfriend nga they're over and he's dating somebodyelse...

pero him not doing it yet could mean... yup... naa nimo gibaling ang iyang dapat i.spend quality time with his girl. mura kang outlet sa ya love unta nga para sa ya girlfriend. he's saying he likes you pero not enough to pursue you exclusively... not enough nga mag honest siya sa ya girl and tell her the truth. i see him as a guy who needs to manifest great love (kung inlove man gyud kaayo siya sa ya girlfriend) and you being there... nimo niya ma manifest permi.

BUT... naay daku kaayong but. Ma develop gyud mo totally and eventually would lead to a break-up between him and the girl. That's one thing about LDR's man gud... if you ALLOW yourself to be close to somebodyelse... like what he's doing... he's making his relationship with his gf vulnerable... mura siyang gaabli sa door ba nga ma fail ilang relationship. I believe everybody is special... we're all unique. Bisan moingon ta nga love kaayo niya iya gf bahala na LDR sila... ug makit-an niya ang uniqueness nimo... ma develop siya and ma inlove siya nimo.

Maoy pait... luoy iya gf dili ikaw ang luoy because from the start kahibalo man ka nga naa siyay gf although layo. Although factor ang distance nilang duha... you're breaking their relationship's boundary and ang guy pud... iya pud na gi ALLOW nga ma break ang boundary. Still it all depends on him. But I hope you would one day ask him to choose para pud dili ka makapasakit ug laing taw... kay naay taw didto sa layo nga luoy pud intawn gadahum nga ya bf faithful niya pero diay to is dating somebodyelse.

Be reminded of delikadesa, for the gf's sake (coz can you imagine nga iya gyud nang tagan.an ug money para makatawag siya sa ya uyab di ba? and she must be working or something... dili malalim ang naa sa layo... lonely kaayo and then inyo lang siyang buangon? please ayaw pud... maypa mag honest nalang kausa ra ang sakit sa girl di ba?) ... find the courage to ask him about you and him and unsa iya plano. Yaw pud palabi sakay sa panganod sa kalipay kay it's not it yet... dili pa na mao.

[ronna]

@n'gel

bulls eye.

[n`gel]

Let me add to this... basta lonely ang taw and gimingaw ug somebody that he loves so much... lisud kaayo nga stage dili malalim. Nobody's perfect... probably in his case sa yang mingaw sa ya girlfriend ma relieved siya nga naa siya'y laing mabalingan ug attention.

We women have great power over men if you guys just realize it. We have the power to seduce, to attract attention etc. even to an extent nga ma blind na sila tungod sa aura nato. Tsk. So naa nato to control ourselves... naa ra nato kung ato ba silang paiBOGON or not... naa ra nato kung magpaduol ba ta o dili. AND... naa ra na nato kung magpaduol ba ta bisan kahibalo ta nga naa sila'y uyab.

I still say luoy gihapon ang gf nga tua sa layo. Mo na kamong duha pagklaro mo, ug ganahan mo sa usa'g-usa pagklaro mo aron intawn tong gf didto sa layo dili intawn mag-usik sa ya panahon ug kasingkasing.

[n`gel]

@n'gel

bulls eye.

lagi saon preha man gyud ta ronn

[meOwkyU]

@ ronna

more than a year na sila sa girl...i bet since close kaau mi ron, mas close cguro cla....close man gani mi na frens rami cla pa kaha na naay comitment?...i didnt ask him man sa ila plans kay dko ganahan na mo meddle too much sa ila relationshp...but i know he'd tell me evrything bout them if mo ask lang ko...anyway, sakit man guro if moask ko bout ana,.daghan kaau ug mga 'wat if's!! so, d nlng ko mangutana,..

cge xa ask nako if i feel the same way for him...but i dun think im in the ryt position to say that i actually do...malibug ra xa if moamin ko...there's nothing to lose if ever moangkon ko, but wat is there to gain? wala man sad... dungag dungag lng ko sa iyang labad... hihihi nya maka cause rasad na ug guilt nako...


@n`gel

were not actually dating...we call it 'frenly' laag laag with berks, usahay alone...pero frenly ra... yep, feel sad bya nako na outlet rako nya,..usahay gusto ko moask nya if his feelings for me is not enuf...hay da, pero lagi, kay pina friend man ang akongdrama, feel nako wala ko sa lugar... pero i actually dont know kung unsa jud cla sa iya gf ka into each other coz wa ko kaila sa girl in person, i know her by picture and by name ra...then more than half sa ila years na uyab clang dli kuyog so makaingon ko na strong sad cguro ila feelings maong nadugay ug ing.ana....i juz hate ba the feeling na he trusts almost everything to me like his passwords, secrets, blah blah...secret man ila relationship, mas napaila-ila pa gani ko nya sa iya family as u know, someone close to him...


ryt now, im playing in the middle...not making a move to get him for myself, nor letting him go to her... but dli man pwd na ing.ani pirmi...i cant afford to hurt his girl nor myself for him... pwd tagaan ko ninyo ug mga ways to forget the feeling coz im desperately trying to do that for the 3-of-us' sake...

[ronna]

I still say luoy gihapon ang gf nga tua sa layo. Mo na kamong duha pagklaro mo, ug ganahan mo sa usa'g-usa pagklaro mo aron intawn tong gf didto sa layo dili intawn mag-usik sa ya panahon ug kasingkasing.

so meOwkyU, ask him if unsa jud na iyaha. ayaw lang sad siya pakalite. ma shock unya hehehe..
naa man jud boundaries ang friends ug ang the other way around.
dont wait na masakitan raka ug samot if in the long run ang gf japon niya iya pili-on.
den if ikaw jud iyaha, well, ayaw sad intawn ninyo kalimte ug pahibalo ang gf kay intawn sad to.

[shaxyra]

karon pako kbantay ani na thread! wahaha.. paeta sad ana inyo mga kaagi wui

[junmar4]

karon pako kbantay ani na thread! wahaha.. paeta sad ana inyo mga kaagi wui

ayaw palabi OT maam ka mawarn nya ka.

^^^ bitaw bro, iladlad na sa iya atubangan unsa jud ang klaro.

[ronna]

gosh meOwkyU... what a coincidence na mao ni imo prob, kay ako ka feel ko sa imo na feel. pero mostly, advise sa akong mga friends kay, do not libugize yourself. hahahah

what i am doing? forgeting him... trying to be friends.. friends na friends ra jud ha..
stay as far as you can from him, but not making it obvious.. syempre love nimo xa, you will have a hard time. try to divert your attention to some other friends.. argh! tough job.. pero if kamo jud, well.. let the man decide for that. never do any efforts.. that your guilt might haunt you.

[meOwkyU]

@ ronna

hehehe...i can ask him if i want to, pero dli assuming ra kaayu ko if moask ko? d man gud ko nahan na maabut ang time na AKO ang mopapili nya between us...id like him to choose by himself...kay ug moask ko, dli kusa...mapugos cya ug tubag.... he told me once na kahibao na daw iya gf bout nako...pero ala ko kahbao unsa bout nko iya gisulti sa iya gf...
kuan sad, i tried to stay away from him...una kay slowly...cge cya ingon nako nganu others daw ko, den katong gikalit nako ug stay away, cge xa text bsan dli na cya usually mo text then gitawagan jud ko nya sa balay,...hay libug jud heheh

@ junmar4

sure ka mao nay dapat buhaton? hay, wat if i remain his fren, kay fren raman sad jud mi karun... we dun even call ourselvs 'involved' wid each other pero we act like one..hihihi