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[pssstbleh]

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Love problem?

I have....my boyfriend left me. he just told me that he needed space, he wants to explore outside.. in which i don't understand and i won't understand...i thought our relationship was perfect...but i was wrong...now, i was left with no choice..i still love him...i want to meet new friends...

im in this situation right now... and believe me.. it hurt me so much.. and im re-learning to exhale heartbreak now

[ysiad]

Love problem?

I have....my boyfriend left me. he just told me that he needed space, he wants to explore outside.. in which i don't understand and i won't understand...i thought our relationship was perfect...but i was wrong...now, i was left with no choice..i still love him...i want to meet new friends...

move on gurl..thats the only thing u shud do ryt now...

nywei, dghan pa mga laki nga nggukod nmo...be happy and be contented...guys sucks!!!
they let us believed that they wont leave us..and now, he needed space...LoL!!!

ingana man jud ng mga relationship...ups and downs..

[Ms.Beau]

@pssstbleh & pinkygirl

i bet your respective bfs already left you in their minds long before they said they needed the space. it's like a secret kept from you. all along you thought everything was perfect but your bfs felt and thought differently. it's sad that you didn't know; it's sad that they didn't tell you about the dissatisfaction. perhaps they did but in a vague way. and now with this realization your tendency would be to cling, something that will push them away even further. so if we really think about it, the best thing to do is to let go.

there's this profound sadness to deal with. what makes it very difficult for the ones left is that you are still at the beginning stage of the leaving process. your bfs, on the other hand, are already right at the exit door. meaning, they went through the process long before you did. it would help to mentally guide yourselves to somehow accelerate the leaving, that instead of clinging and hoping for a reconciliation, you'd steer yourself to moving on instead. kana man gung mo hope ka nga magkabalik mo makapadugay sa imong pag move on. ang imong bf naka move on na ikaw wala pa, so musamot imong kasakit.

deal with sadness without being too harsh on yourselves coz we are always learning pa, always growing, so we will always make mistakes. just learn whatever you can from that relationship so that the next would be better. if they come back, then it's something to consider, but not necessarily jump into right away. ask if they have learned how to communicate this time, kay kung wala gihapon, mo balik ra gihapon tong ilang style nga magsekreto-sekreto sa ilang dissatisfaction. require growth from them as you yourselves are on that path.

hope your new year brings love from all corners, and especially from within!

[angelfyre]

@pinkygirl: i hate to say 'i told u so' but, i told u!!! remember sa k1? dai tawn, pagmata na...ky pahimo-an nlng ka namo ug statue ni mel, promise! like pacquiao sa baywalk. y cge man kag hold on after wat he did? reread his break up txt msg gud. ayw na pailad...dont give him a chance to reject u, again. naa na lage na syay gipuli. ka gwapa nimo oi, stop feeling ugly. hahay kat, saon nlng ka namo. pahulmon taka sa 'Hes Just Not That Into U' oki? hehehe

@beau: actually, pinkygirl is a gud frend of mine. UGG jd sya mam hehehe, ambot saon ni namo sya.

[r0mm3L]

needed space

this line+hints is equivalent to "im falling out of love"

[anya]

dili na jud ko mo.tuo ana na line "i need space". my guy friend recently was told by his xgf na she needed space daw cos she wanted to focus on her studies. haha. after a week, her neighbor (who is a good friend of ours and classmate) saw a guy visit her apartment and they were holding hands and kissing outside.

[n`gel]

@anya: that's mostly true... pwede man ang taw magcontemplate ba while in the relationship... kung space iyang gusto probably lessen lang ang sige kita or communicate but not totally walaon.

[meOwkyU]

Yo! I'm bak! hehehe

well, i have a situation ryt now...umm naa koy crush but naa xay girl...iya girl kay naa somewhere far away for a long period of time and dugay na cla wa nagkita pero call kaau iya girl nya pirmi...but he told me he lyks me...na if onli ala xay uyab, he'd court me...but we're juz close frens...duh...libog noh? ako nlibug sad...

he introduced me to his family na...we hang out alot together pa gani...we're actually closer now kaysa sauna... i so lyk him and his company pero, it doesnt remove the fact naa naa xay girl...hehehe pa frenly epek man mi duha.., pero kahibao nmn gud ko sa iya na feel for me...hahay, pero i really dun want to cause him and his girl problems...ako pa gani xa i encourage na mohold on sa ila relationship bsan pa LDR cla,...but everytym i push him to her, sakit...heheh kay lab nmn sad au nako cya...nya nya wenever magkakuyog mi, all we see is each other...heheheh...but i feel na he juz finds my company a substitute for wat he and his girl should have--a close one...pero he never failed to make me feel luvd... bisan sa iya 'frenly' ways....

wat to do? am i doing the ryt thing? i dun wanna be a 'mangingilog'...

although im happy (coz he makes me contented) with wat we have ryt now, libug...i love and feel love...pero love jud kaha?

[kidchaos]

torture man na imu sis..

[ronna]

@meOwkyU

pila na sila ka years sa gurl?
how close are they when they were together? (before the gurl left?)
do they have plans? long term, short term?

it might be that he is looking for someone's affection while his gurl is away.
pwedi sad na nahan xa nimo for real.
naa manjud na sa laki na frenly na sila, den mao sad na rison why naa jud ma fall para nila bisag naa na sila tag-iya. dili sad baya na sala sa guy na naay ma fall sa ilaha..

i know how you feel and if he is worth fighting, go on..
libog man jud e-advise sa ing ana na prob kay ikaw man japon masunod maski unsa amo isulte.
pero, para nako.forget the feelings.. it will lead you nowhere..
if ganahan ka, ask him straight. kaw ra japon masakitan in the end, kay mosamot ka ka fall for his "frenly" ways...