how to come out as a lesbian..?

[ashley85]

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@ sand man: gwapo ka....?

[Sand Man]

@ sand man: gwapo ka....?

Hahahahahaha! Kamao sad.


La lang. Gi-up lang nako ang thread. hehehe

[ashley85]

thanks..bu there's no need to up the thread..hehe

[yaj.em]

how to come out as a lesbian...

let me share with you my story.

Bata pa ko, kbaw nku unsa ako gusto, pero wala ko niladlad kay religious au ko papa ug grabe ka stricto. So, tago sa ko. Hangtod ng high skol ko, tago lang ghapon ko. Ang ako ate, naa ideya unsa ko, ug sge xa padungog2x nku na malas kuno ko, TOMBOY bweset... unsa pa na dha. So, nisamot jd ko ug tago sa tinood. Everytime mg cge ug ingon ato ko sis, I feel pain no one can explain. Ako ra mga high school close girl friends ang kibaw sa tinood. Dili mn ko mailhan sauna kay, long hair mn ko, naa pd daghan nag kagusto na boy...girly outfit. As in no trace of being a lesbian.

But then, one day, naa PTA meeting sa skol, ang ako teacher nakgtalk sa ko papa, and she told him na tomboy ko. And wala nku kbaw sa uban. So mao nato, nakahibaw xa. And you know what my father told me. He said na dapat kuno ko mangompisal sa simbahan kay daku au sala ang ako gibuhat. Dapat mg usab ko. Wala ko kasabot sa ko gibati. Didto nku na feel na dili ko madawat sa ko papa. No prob with my mother because i knew that she already knew the real me. And thankful ko, wala koy nadungog na storya sa ko mama. So mao nato, nangingil ko papa if nangumpisal ba ko, and to tell you honestly, ako jd xa gikompisal, pero kato na pagdayon namo graduate sa highSchool. Dili nku to makalimtan, gitanaw ko sa pare after nku to gisulti na....(mao nato)...

so to make the story short, wala ko niladlad while naa ko sa poder sa ko parents. Ngadto ra nko nigawas ang tinood na ako kato ng lahi nku. 17 yrs old, wala nku ngpuyo sa amo, (nglayas, maybe, maybe not). Ng work ko, ng skol ko balik, ni graduate ko sa ako lang paningkamot(but ni help ko parents in my 4th yr 2nd sem na. wala nmn ko ng work at that time to focus more on my studies)... nibalik amo maau boot sa ko papa (pero wala nku nibalik puyo with my parents). Then one day, ni text ko niya na "Pa, tomboy ko. Madawat ko nimo o dili.?" and he replied, "wala mn na problema nku day".

So that's it. Dili saun ang moladlad. If ever you feel the need to come out, then do it. But be ready and you must be strong enough because there are possibilities that the closest person you knew might be the one who will lost respect sa imo.

dapat naka prepare na ka sa mga negative reactions, violent reactions, discriminations ug uban pa. Ana lang

[pboi]

just be urself oi.

[W.Axl Rose]

sa mga bayot simpol ra buhaton muikid lang...............hahahahahah

[luigie2x]

All are welcome here

[Wynna]

just go with the flow.... kay para nako, u don't need to say it since action speaks louder than words.

[Sand Man]

just go with the flow.... kay para nako, u don't need to say it since action speaks louder than words.

Ug ma ikaw, Wynn, unsaon man nimo pag "go with the flow"?

[Wynna]

Ug ma ikaw, Wynn, unsaon man nimo pag "go with the flow"?

just follow your heart, and let the people judge and ask you.... you don't necessarily need to brag about your identity in public kay coming out of the closet is a process and it's never that easy.. dili lalim especially if you belong to a very conservative and close minded family..and with the society, it's up for them to judge anyway, but eitherway, might it be positive or negative let's just somehow be happy at least wala ta nagpaka "plastic" or nagpaka "hypocrite" with regards to our preference or identity..