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[jasonong]

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uhmm. another what if mga bai and dai. what if imo uyab mag sige text nga
"si dodong iya ko gikuhaan og mangga."
tipong e text pa niya sa imo tung nabuhat sa ubang boylets sa iya. murag insultation na kau na mga bai and dai noh?

[meshka_007]

encourage ur gf to go out with her frnds too, let her see the beauty kung unsay feeling naa ka frnds and that from time to time kailangan jud ng mga bonding moments...
if she learns to appreciate that then masabtan niya imo need to be with your frnds.

[d`monyita]

nope we r not married..and she doesnt go out with her frens.. and i think nahan sad cya na inana sad ko

yikes... methinks there is something wrong with ur gf hehehehe. talk to her... if she is still makitid ang utak...aw... iwanan mo.... di pa gani mo minyo sinasakal ka na.

[d`monyita]

hay meron mental problem yan gf mo... iwanan mo at humanap ka ng matino.... bwahahahahahah

si mother naghahasik ng lagim..... beware....

[Ms.Beau]

@jasonong
why do you allow such emotional abuse? you may say you love her and that she's not that bad and she isn't for sure...just immature....but why allow it? command some respect, bro. this girl isn't showing you any.

[jasonong]

ah ic. tnx sa nU mga opinion guys.

[Streetcar]

@bashka, dude, one thing I've learned that I would like to remind you is that everything is relative. Everything. Even the truth

In your case, the bestfriend of your ex-girlfriend apparently has one version of the truth as you have yours. A story actually has more than two sides. You have yours and she has hers.

You might want to take some time and effort to explain to her your personal emotions and impressions of your situation about your ex-girlfriend. Please do so if you feel the need to be justified but as one guy to another, don't waste your time or you'll fall into an endless loop of argument and heartache. Plus don't forget you have a gut feeling that those two have sided with each other to hoodwink you out of your hard-earned cash.

I do not pretend to comprehend the entire story of you, your ex- and her bestfriend but since you're the one asking for help and opinions, I'm going to throw some Aesopian wisdom and some smart cliches your way:

1) You cannot please everyone~ You are not Jesus nor Superman-- you are human. There is nothing wrong with that really. Just realize that your life has a limited time and your youth has an even shorter time. Learn to please yourself first, you'll live a happy life before it expires.

2) Follow your heart~ God doesn't want people to suffer, particularly in this life. And He each us gave a heart in order for us to know our way to our own happiness. Follow your heart, if it tells you you are unhappy then that means you're on the wrong way or with the wrong person.

3) S/He is who is sinless cast the first stone~ I don't really care for the curses and insults of your ex's bestfriend. She must be writing things in anger because her spelling and grammar are pathetic plus her entire message is truly un-Christian. If you are true and convinced about your stand, don't fear~ God protects a person with a clear, right conscience.

May this experience serve as a lesson to you, friend Bashka, and this coming new year I sincerely hope you use what you have learned to afford yourself a new fresh start on life and love!

Take care and seasons greetings!

@Bashka, i totally agree with Diem.

[marc_b]

bro wa ka nakadeserve ug inana nga treatment, buwagi na bro,wa na cya kadeserve sa imo tym ug love..basin bro nga trip lang jud niya ang lalaki nga makaprove nga dili cya ba-og

[marc_b]

actually mga bro,nasturyaan naman ni namo,musugot man cya pero ang problema, malingaw pa kaha ka mulakaw kung iyang isulti kay "cge lakaw lang,ok ra,hahay mag-unsa kaha ko diri noh,wa jud koy kuyog laag(mga in-ana nga sturya ba)"..maayo kaayo na tao ako gf n di ko nahan masakitan cya..makonsensya man gud ko kung mag-inana cya..sa iyang gisulti na inana tabla raman na wa ko niya sugti.. hibong sad ko,maayo man ta kau ni cya nga tao pero wa jud kaayo cya frens,murag tungod man gud ni sa iya x sauna nga loser kau,way migo,mao na cla ra duha pirmi kuyog

[Ms.Beau]

murag tungod man gud ni sa iya x sauna nga loser kau,way migo,mao na cla ra duha pirmi kuyog

which is what you'll become yourself if you won't assert your individuality. on this matter she definitely needs to learn from you, not the other way around. good luck!