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[cbu]

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ako naa koy probem:

What happens if love is replaced by anger? Deep anger ba. I've always noticed no matter how loving the relationship is basta na koy makit-an nga mo provoke sa kong lawm nga anger ba kay mawala tanan. When I broke up with my last bf inlove pa gihapon kaayo ko niya until something happened nga nakapalagot nako pag-ayo and the feeling just poooofed for eternity! Mo na ubang taw moingon nga I have a strong personality pero mawala ug ma inlove pero ug mobalik pud gani ang strong personality, bangis pud. I can kill a rabbit right now, honestly.

When love is replaced by anger that means your hurt. That might be your feelings, pride and your expectations. Its really hard if relationship gets to that point coz romantic feelings is automatically gone.

[n`gel]

Garbosa gyud ko nga taw angkon gyud ko ana, nature gyud na naku. I think that's why katong first naku nga serious bf kay giingnan na nako siya daan nga "ayaw gyud pag flirt, ayaw gyud duol ug babae in a way (you know what I mean) especially in front of me, ayaw gyud ko padungga sa mga barkada nga nanchicks mo kay buwagan taka deretso" sus 4 years nami, nag-away mi while namakasyon ang tanang barkada sa iligan didto mi'g tinago falls. Gasakit akong dughan and i saw with my two own eyes nga naa siyay giduol nga girl sa atbang, shet sakita pero mo gyud toy gibuwagan namo, diha mismo ako gibuwagan. I was so angry why he had to do that, and in front of me pa gyud and I never looked back, that was really the end.

[jugs_06]

yup.. lisud jd ng makit-an nimo imong gf with another guy.. d matabang..

[cbu]

worst thing pa jud, she said na iya sakit cancer. Pwde na lagi mawriter sa maalaala mo kaya.

Im glad u moved on and jst leave behind ur days with her. If giving her a second chance is not what u want, then thats very good that you figured out this time what you really want. Time heals all wounds.

[sphinx17]

i experience that but its hard to do....i sometimes just hide the feeling thats inside i know it hurts but it should be...

[MyMaria]

ako naa koy probem:

What happens if love is replaced by anger? Deep anger ba. I've always noticed no matter how loving the relationship is basta na koy makit-an nga mo provoke sa kong lawm nga anger ba kay mawala tanan. When I broke up with my last bf inlove pa gihapon kaayo ko niya until something happened nga nakapalagot nako pag-ayo and the feeling just poooofed for eternity! Mo na ubang taw moingon nga I have a strong personality pero mawala ug ma inlove pero ug mobalik pud gani ang strong personality, bangis pud. I can kill a rabbit right now, honestly.

I had that experience before... believe me, I broke off with my now ex-fiance over something very shallow. Once I set my rules, guys have to either take it or leave it. Wala'y 2nd chance-2nd chance. Wa jud ko ka remember ug uyab nga ako gi balikan. Once buwag... buwag for LIFE. Mas advantage nato n`gel ang ingon ani nga personality... why? Because we IF we get hurt, the hurt won't stay long. Sayon ra kaayo i-move on.. Regarding your anger, okay ra na... Ipagawas.. sus, during my days, magkalat gyud kog lagim when I'm angry... On fire gyud ko ana. Especially with someone. Dili gyud ko mahimutang unless I do something "drastic" gyud. After which, I find peace. No regrets. Mas maayo gyud ipagawas ang imo anger. Don't worry yadz, naa pa jud daghan mo abot nga lalaki.. kung this type of anger is caused by him.. there is ABSOLUTELY no reason to see this guy again. You deserve someone who will cherish you and bring out the best in you. Not someone who will bring you heartache/pain.

Garbosa gyud ko nga taw angkon gyud ko ana, nature gyud na naku. I think that's why katong first naku nga serious bf kay giingnan na nako siya daan nga "ayaw gyud pag flirt, ayaw gyud duol ug babae in a way (you know what I mean) especially in front of me, ayaw gyud ko padungga sa mga barkada nga nanchicks mo kay buwagan taka deretso" sus 4 years nami, nag-away mi while namakasyon ang tanang barkada sa iligan didto mi'g tinago falls. Gasakit akong dughan and i saw with my two own eyes nga naa siyay giduol nga girl sa atbang, shet sakita pero mo gyud toy gibuwagan namo, diha mismo ako gibuwagan. I was so angry why he had to do that, and in front of me pa gyud and I never looked back, that was really the end.

pare-pareho diay ta... selosa man ko nga type, murag naa mana nga trait gyud nako ug dili jud na malikyan because I am an only child... competitive ug gusto jud ko nga ako ang tanan... murag war-freak ba.. anything that stands my way will be destroyed... praning! hahahaha especially sa ako current guy... feel na jud nako nga gi-choke na nako siya to death hihihi but that's the way I love.. unsaon taman... it just goes to prove nga I care when I make a fuss about everything... besides, wa man pod siya'y reklamo because I'm the type of person that when I love truly, I don't hold back anything... (bisan ug ma alkansi pa) and maski unsa jud ko ka stricta, I'm glad makasabot ra gyud ang guy and I'm thankful nga he's mindful of the things that I don't want to see or want him to do. I guess it just also proves he cares for me deeply, not in the sense nga nag pa "under" siya but he knows it makes me happy. Tee hee...

I wish all the girls here will find someone who won't just love them... but will truly, madly, deeply UNDERSTAND them...
(Maski ako gud tingale, kung ako ang lalaki... maglisod kog sabot nako as a babaye. Hahahahahaha!)

[jugs_06]

tsk.. that's the hardest thing to answer.. one thing i know, i'm a torpe..

[n`gel]

Goodness gracious, one other being so much the same as me. Waaa @MyMaria: friend potential above standard hahaha. But it is true... if he that somebody loves you much... he'll do everything he can to make you happy and at which brings out the best in you pud... and may nang klaro ang general rule para dili pud nila buhaton that would cause them to lose us for good... and if ila pung buhaton that means... dili ta ingon ana nila ka love and okay ra nila mawala ta.

Although the source of my rage is a little too complicated, not his fault, but i'm just really angry and through experience yup agree ko... dali ra kaayo ang pag move on basta naay grabe nga anger. I'm angry right now pero I don't know if it's gonna last kay di man ang general rule ang gibuak pud gud so til then nalang.

[junmar4]

@junmar

mao ni imo mga previous posts...ako lang i-recall ha:

akong love problem kay naa ko gf pero against all odds man gud.
nya nilarga siya para daw magpatambal sa iya sakit pero dili diay.
she left to weigh things out, between me and her ex.

wala man ko nagdahum, because nibalik siya but i didn't accept her anymore. That was still last year then sige gihapon siya text, call, email, etc. but kapoy na!

naglibog lang ko.... ingon ka nga ang imo love problem kay naa ka gf against all odds mo then sa lain nimo nga post kay last year ra diay sya nibalik then wala na nimo gi-accept...... so meaning wala na diay kay gf karon? wala na unta kay problema karon ngano murag affected pa man kaayo ka nga cge sya text, call, email, etc sa imo?

ingon ko kami? klaro ana ko ra!

[MyMaria]

@n`gel -- APIR ta soulmate material!!!

mao lang ni ako masulti sa mga lalaki... i know rules are made to be broken (so they say) but if you love the girl then you would do everything to make her happy... (read: stick to the rules!)



bitaw oi.. golden rule ba.. "DO NOT DO UNTO OTHERS WHAT YOU DO NOT WANT OTHERS TO DO UNTO YOU."

simple.. pero ROCK!!!