More than bestfriends pero dili uyab

[cishmie_angel]

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ahahahahaha.. no i wouldn't even dream of having such relationship... im still a hopeless romantic by heart... you know that mi ameyga... hihihi

mao bitaw wala ka ni try kay "hopeless romantic" jud ka.. hahaha..

but kasabot ko nimo.. what I'm saying was that your formula was the norm but it does not apply to all..

there are rare cases nga FWB ra ang imo tuyo kay mu tilaw lang ka sa usa ka sud-an (labaw na ug lami nga sud-an pero naa nalang jud tag-iya.. so no choice ka kundi maki sawsaw)..

pina ANNE CURTIZ sa no other woman.. kung derik rampsey ang laki? bahala na ug nag hilak ko kada gabii for the next 10years basta naka tilaw ko niya.. hahahaha (joke ra.. seryoso ra kaayo ang topic gud)

[adz]

well, kung mao na girl.. you both have gone to a higher level sa inyo friendship.. they use to call this "more than friends but less than lovers"..

but if you know from the very start nga naa jud xa uyab, ikaw jud ang naa control if:

A) you would just enjoy the moment of pretending nga ikaw ang uyab2x for the moment nga wala iyag uyab ( because you know dili jud ikaw ang tag iya and I know at some point na lipay sad ka sa iya gipangbuhat in a way because one would always feel good if someone cares for you that way right? ) then eventually e uli sa tag-iya inig abot..


B) Find a way nga ma angkon jud siya.. nga inig balik sa uyab, wala na xa balikon.. (this is mean an agressive act but you get what you want); or

C) you decide to find someone who would also make you feel the same way nga ikaw na jud ang tinood uyab, pero dili na siya..

anyway, you both know na FWB ra mo sa sugod pa lang.. dibah?

A. yep tinuod sad at some point nalipay ko sa iyang gipangbuhat...labi na crush biya jud nako siya pag HS ang naka bati lang ma konsensya ko sa iya gf kay kaila ra sad nako...

B. tempting nga mangilog pero sayop.hahaha bitaw oi been in a situation once nga ako ang nailogan and i know dili jud lalim...

C. dili paman jud ko ready mo commit ug isa ka relationship...honestly naa man jud sad guy nga nanguyab nako run as in matawag jud na eligible and ready to settle down na jud stable na and maka buhi na jud ug pamilya...pero ako lang jud ang problema dili pako ka commit kay unstable pa jud ko ug mind and wala man koy na feel para niya gud... cguro tungod ni sa akong na experience these past few months dili lalim so mag lisod pako ug give in sa akong love ug trust sa isa ka tao.

[ilovedogs]

ang benefits nindot rana kng sa trabaho.

[cishmie_angel]

@adz:

A) konsensya ka sa iya gf? wa man nimo xa iloga.. you are just "more than friends but less than lovers".. enjoying each other's company of being together..

B) sayup? well, as the saying goes "everyone is fair in LOVE and WAR".. by the end of the day, it is your choice to win LOVE by fighting for the man you love.. Or be the good samaritan but loosing the person you LOVE (kana kung LOVE na jud nimo xa)..

I also had my share of pains sa nailogan ug uyab and na ngilog ug uyab.. It was not easy both ways.. But one can get over it in time.. dili man nimo problema ang problema sa iyang gf..and again this requires a great amount of aggressiveness and courage..

c) readiness for commitment? well, in the first place that's basically the reason why we get a FWB setup right? you don't need "readiness" to hangout with someone else and explore other options to get over this guy.. eventually ma ready raka when you have found the right person among your new salections..

[Chedot]

ang benefits nindot rana kng sa trabaho.

Nah dili ni mahimo sa amoa kay lahi na benefits ang amoa nadawat. . Benefits as in "dugang trabaho". . hehehe

[extrovertchx]

again I would say "don't keep your hopes up".. stop norturing the feeling.. I had FWB where he used to tell me he loves me, "I'm sure you feel the same way", "I'm not worthy pa sa imo", "manita sa ko job and I will be back for you".. then disapears --- 5months later ni kalit xa pakita, another session (since he was really yummy.. and I was st*p*d).. then suddenly gets lost again.. so I told myself ako ra nag gaga sa ako self and all.. so I decided to get over the HOPES na tinood iya gi sulti..

then pakita na sad xa after a few months or so.. but this time, I was having fun with other guys when he got back.. So I never bothered na pansinon xa pag balik niya.. hahahaha.. sorry na lang xa..

ahaha. ala na ang feeling. na.relieved naku cge lang chika2 dre. wala nagyud ae as in, d naku magsakit, wala na jud. hehehe..
ngeta nsd ta lain ani. ahahaha. no cmmitment jpun para nice. heheeh.

[cishmie_angel]

hahaha.. feeling nako bah kay BI kaayo ko nimo ameyga woi.. hahaha.. encourage kaayo ang FWB nga setup noh? hahahaha.. nalingaw man gud ko ato sauna jud woi..

but am over that now.. kay there came a guy (ako na BF karon) who was also in the same FWB situations a lot of times before nga ni prove sa iya self nga mu undang siya sa iya bisyo and settle with me.. hehehehe..

I would not deny the fact that I miss those days.. but this guy proved to me that he was worth better thsn sll the other fun I used to have.. mao to na undang ako bisyo.. hahahahaa..

you will also have your time girl..

[adz]

@adz:

A) konsensya ka sa iya gf? wa man nimo xa iloga.. you are just "more than friends but less than lovers".. enjoying each other's company of being together..

B) sayup? well, as the saying goes "everyone is fair in LOVE and WAR".. by the end of the day, it is your choice to win LOVE by fighting for the man you love.. Or be the good samaritan but loosing the person you LOVE (kana kung LOVE na jud nimo xa)..

I also had my share of pains sa nailogan ug uyab and na ngilog ug uyab.. It was not easy both ways.. But one can get over it in time.. dili man nimo problema ang problema sa iyang gf..and again this requires a great amount of aggressiveness and courage..

c) readiness for commitment? well, in the first place that's basically the reason why we get a FWB setup right? you don't need "readiness" to hangout with someone else and explore other options to get over this guy.. eventually ma ready raka when you have found the right person among your new salections..

A. hahahaha grabe ka sis nalingaw kos imong mga gipang tambag...bitaw wala man ko nangilog never ko mangilog unsaon man akong migo dili man sad molikay mao man ang mag una2x...

B. hmmm dili sad ko ka sulti nga love na nako siya...mailog pa diay ni nako nga 11yrs na sila?hahaha and dili man ko aggressive na pagka tao ako ang type nga chill lang dili ko mo demand pasagdan ra tika mo go with the flow rako..hehe

C. yep sakto jud ka sis...wala pa jud ko ka feel nga naabot na ang right person for me..cguro by the time nga moaabot na siya ma feel guro na nako and kana nga time mo commit na jud ko.hehe

[extrovertchx]

hahaha.. feeling nako bah kay BI kaayo ko nimo ameyga woi.. hahaha.. encourage kaayo ang FWB nga setup noh? hahahaha.. nalingaw man gud ko ato sauna jud woi..

but am over that now.. kay there came a guy (ako na BF karon) who was also in the same FWB situations a lot of times before nga ni prove sa iya self nga mu undang siya sa iya bisyo and settle with me.. hehehehe..

I would not deny the fact that I miss those days.. but this guy proved to me that he was worth better thsn sll the other fun I used to have.. mao to na undang ako bisyo.. hahahahaa..

you will also have your time girl..

heehenn.. nope dli ka BI ameyga woist.. its ur opinion and its all up to me kng sundon naku or dle.. hehehe.. ang aku pud is btaw, lingaw man sd xa. hehehe. pro kelangan lang pud jd ug limitations. hehehe.

hehehe. ohhwww.. glad u found d right one for u. heheh.
ako maybe try and try until i succeed and have someone real and not so perfect but will accept me for me. heheeh. guroe its not yet my time.
fun lang sa jd, d man ta mapriso aning kalakiha. ahahaha.

[extrovertchx]

right.. the best way to keep your mind off someone, is to find SOMEONE ELSE.. hahahaha..

daghana para ma busy ka.. awa, dili na nya ka maka remember sa isa.. kay busy naka sa daghan.. hahahaha..

ae 1x1 man ni ako. d lang nako dunganon, lisod man. hehehe.
atik.