Help! Need advice!

[shadowfax]

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Dear TS,

Try to sort out your feelings. What you're feeling may be familiarity due to affinity. There's a strong connection between related blood that you may find hard to pinpoint at the onset. It may be misconstrued as falling in love versus plain affinity.

My suggestion is not to fight the feeling. It's okay to be familiar and close to your cousin but always put things in the right perspective. You can take advantage of that relationship to where you have a cousin that you build trust on. Make friends with him, be close, create a healthy relationship. One that you can always be happy about without compromising it.


Remember to PUT THINGS IN THE RIGHT PERSPECTIVE!

[street_of_no_return]

ulahiha sa ng gugma gugma day kaon sa ug taman ug bugas kai laau pa kaau ka sa tinoud. binata ra mao ng.crush2x ka sa imong ig.agaw.

[JezzyCalm]

^ aw.. kk guyz... ty sa advice....

Baka may positive comments naman diyaan?

kapal mo naman.. ngita kag positive comments. sorry ha, u have to know nga sayop jud na.

[lex-libris]

HeHe.. di pa man tali allowed (sa tradition) nga 3rd degree cousin. cousin pa man gihapon na. den, if 4th degree na mo, pataas, edi, puydi naman kuno na? Pero impossible pud to ahung situation kay second degree kaha me, then, we have the same last name!!!

Actually, the law only prohibit relatives up to 4th civil degree to marry each other...
Legally speaking, ang civil degree is different from the layman's degree nga ato
nahibaw-an... Ang 1st degree cousins sa ato layman's term is 4th civil degree
under the law... Naa nako discussion/reply about ani sa other post (incest).

Example:
YOU and your Parent = 1st civil degree
YOU and your Sibling = 2nd civil degree
YOU and your Grandparent = 2nd civil degree
YOU and your Uncle/Aunt = 3rd civil degree
YOU and your Nephew/Niece = 3rd civil degree)
YOU and your Cousin = 4th civil degree
And so on...

Beyond that kay allowed na by law to marry each other...
Pero under sa ato culture, bisan mga 2nd degree or 3rd degree
cousins kay unacceptable man jud kayo...
Mao na giingon "not all legal are moral"...

[ermie.faith]

ayaw na ipadayun migo oi