Naa ba ko'y sala ani mga bro and sis?

[iamMaRiEveLh]

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hehehe no prob sis.... this is really true, ni agi na pod ko ana sis. pero a slight difference lang sa imo situation pero more or less mao2 ra jud. and thats what i did which was right... ang nahitabo kay magparamdam intawon nya cge pangayo pasaylo, hehehe wala nalang pod nko tubaga... we have been friends for almost 20years nya bag-o lang ni gawas ang tinood color. hinoon wala na ko grudge and willing ko makig friends balik pero i'd take my distance na jud.

mao ni ginaingon sa uban na ok ra ma migo balik pero ayaw na og su-od2 para dili ka ma sayon2.

in short pra dli naka ma maminghoy after sa imong gbuhat ug nahatag sa imong friends.. Murag ani nlng "I do not choose who to be my friends. But I do choose who to trust." ..hehhehe!!

[john_yo]

in short pra dli naka ma maminghoy after sa imong gbuhat ug nahatag sa imong friends.. Murag ani nlng "I do not choose who to be my friends. But I do choose who to trust." ..hehhehe!!

mao na. hehehe ikaw pay ni tabang nya ikaw pay ma daotan. now youre getting there. hehehe everyone can be friends but choose wisely whom you really trust.

ok i hope naka tabang mi nimo, and you are welcome.

[iamMaRiEveLh]

mao na. hehehe ikaw pay ni tabang nya ikaw pay ma daotan. now youre getting there. hehehe everyone can be friends but choose wisely whom you really trust.

ok i hope naka tabang mi nimo, and you are welcome.

Superb bro.. Its a big help jud imo advice.. Salamat sa usob..hehehe

[crazy_monkey]

lisod bitaw ni na situation TS dah. choose nlng jud wisely.. and i think sakto imong decision na dili papadayunon ang laki ug court nimo.. heheheeh

[yiennahs]

Xcus me? do u really know d whole story?

1st: unsa di angay naku i treat nya> i guess gbuhat naman cguro naku tanan para mahimong good friend nya. and isa pa g unsa di naku sya pag treat nganu aq man ang na negative nuon ani? huna2-a kuno libakon ka sa imong miga sa lain nya friends just bcus of that guy? kinsai mabaw namu utok run? laki awayan? so i think wla kay right mo question how i treat her as my bestfriend ky sa tinuod lng ghatag jud naku tanan including money matter!! so kinsa di kabalo mu treasure run? ako sya or ikaw? COncern ka sa iyang gibati ky nasakitan sya? in wat way? nga in d first place wla man sya feelings sa guy and ug mao lay basihan about concern? wla ba pud ba sya or ikaw na concern saku gibati? ikaw kuno libakon sa imong g treat na bestfriend? so asa man sakit ana run? akong gbuhat"nga ambot lang ug naa bajud ko sala nabuhat?" or iyang gbuhat panglibak?

2nd: i dont think naa koi gstorya nga nangelog kog laki? in the first place and laki may cge chat2 naku una and sya moi nanguyab naku dli man cguro ako? and isa pa ug nangelog ko gsugot na unta naku sya dba? so asa man dha karun imong nakita nga akoy nangelog? xcus me? do u knw wat r u talking about?

3rd: as i've said earlier wla ko nisugot nga mag court ang laki naku cus i respect my bestfriend.. so i guess dli ka maka ingon naku mao ratoi katapat samong friendship ang laki? huna hunaa sad tarung daw?

f u considered this thread as a backbite. wel its ur choice.. But creating this page is my way to gain more advices.. And if ur not in ur mood to advice. No one is forcing u.. If u dont like my thread then ur free to leave!Kaysa pataka lng kag storya.. Bavosh!

my choice is simple my dear
talk to her
"nganu gud tawn manglibak ka naku nga nananghid ko nimo nga ako nato imong suitor ug nisugut paka! unsa mani?"
para makabaw ka unsay batasan niya!
hello best friend in tawn mo
unsa nalay pulus nga nagbestfriend mo!
basig pataka rapud kag sulti diri
who knows, there are two sides of a story
basin ganeh wa ka kabaw nga nahurt siya nga wa nimo nabantayan
bantay bitaw ug kan-un na nimo imong mga storya diri
sa laki palang gani nag-away namu
duh, you just posted this thread bec you want to feel that you are right and you did nothing wrong
well i'm sorry but you just posted your real self here
Good luck with that!

[iamMaRiEveLh]

lisod bitaw ni na situation TS dah. choose nlng jud wisely.. and i think sakto imong decision na dili papadayunon ang laki ug court nimo.. heheheeh

Thank you sis if mao nah.. im happy nga sakto di akong gbuhat.. Salamat sa pag agree sis..

[iamMaRiEveLh]

my choice is simple my dear
talk to her
"nganu gud tawn manglibak ka naku nga nananghid ko nimo nga ako nato imong suitor ug nisugut paka! unsa mani?"
para makabaw ka unsay batasan niya!
hello best friend in tawn mo
unsa nalay pulus nga nagbestfriend mo!
basig pataka rapud kag sulti diri
who knows, there are two sides of a story
basin ganeh wa ka kabaw nga nahurt siya nga wa nimo nabantayan
bantay bitaw ug kan-un na nimo imong mga storya diri
sa laki palang gani nag-away namu
duh, you just posted this thread bec you want to feel that you are right and you did nothing wrong
well i'm sorry but you just posted your real self here
Good luck with that!

hey, it seems nga wla jud ka kakuha sa d whole story sis..hehe. Kinsai nag ingon NOTE: ana ka talk to her nga ""nganu gud tawn manglibak ka naku nga nananghid ko nimo nga ako nato imong suitor ug nisugut paka! unsa mani?" For u to know sis "wla ko nananghid nya nga akoa na ang suitor and wla koi g ingon nga nisugot sya ako na iya suitor" in d first place why shud i do that? Kung gibuhat kuna nga nananghid ko nga ako na iyang suitor mao nana nga time mka ingon ka "NANGELOG KOG LAKI" klaru na kaayo but sori wla naku nagibuhat and never nku na buhaton ka klaru atong kong gstorya nga wla naku g hatagaan ug chance ang guy bcus mas important akong bestfriend kysa sa kinsa panang lakiha..

Dili jud ka mka ingon wlai pulos among pagka bestfriend ky kabaw jud sya unsa akong gbuhat tanan nya and mga g let go pra nya.. Tinuod na unsai pulos pagka bestfriend namu kung gbuhat na naku tanan daghan ko let go just for our friendship pru unsa iya gbuhat glibak paku nya sa iyang mga friends? gets nmu akong side sis? Ug wla aw dli nato pugson ky magdugo..

Btaw sis i hope u dont mind pru nangeta man gud kog advice that's why i created this thread and sori to inform u but wla ka naka help sis samot pataka lang kag storya..HAHAHA! ambot asa nmu na kuhaa imong gpang storya basin na saag lang ka dri nga thread sis lahi to imo nabasa..hekhek! Nagdungag2 nuon kas akog problema..

but i cant blame u if thats ur opinion lahi2 man tag panglantaw. And if u talk about real self here. OMG look who's talking? Basin nasakitan ka ky ing-ana sad ka? .. selfish kung baga gusto makuha ang tanan.. and ready byaan ang friendship just bcus of LAKI? btaw who knows?tsk tsk! and katong ingon nmu "sa laki palang gani nag-away namu" wel xcus me again dli akoi nakig away mao btaw gi let go naku ang laki ky d ko ganahan mag away tungog sa laki..sus ginoo daghan pang laki gahuwat naku sis uie kung kabaw palang ka! Daghan ng linya ..! Kato nlng jud among awayan? anyway thanks sa imo opinion but sori wa jud ka help!

And lastly ingon ka "you just posted this thread bec you want to feel that you are right and you did nothing wrong" Asa man ko side ni ingon nga nagmalinis ko nga wla koi sala? sa title palang ani nga thread nag ask naku ug naa bako sala so i guess wla cguro ko nagmalinis ? mao btaw nangunta ko dba mga bro and sis..Pag sure dha uie!! btaw cge sis okay rana sya ako pa nmu nuh? Just a piece of advice: MATOG ka, MALIGO, magpa MASSAGE unya KAON after ana balika basa akong thread! Basin magkasinabtanay nata!hehehe.. anyway thank you for visiting my thread!goodbye

[prettylicious]

belle, if that's how most people call you, in my own opinion lang ha? Why don't you ask your friend heart to heart talk mo unsa jud feelings niya for the guy. If you were that close to her, I mean dba bestfriends mo? You should've known in her eyes what is inside her heart like when you both talk about that "guy" maka tell man jud ka sa iyang true feelings not just kay niana cya wala cya feeling sa guy you believed right away. Maulaw lang cguro cya muangkon nmu nga naibog pud siya sa guy kay maybe she found out nga they guy cguro talks about you a lot if magkuyog cla sa imu bstfriend mao mura cya na selos. On the other hand, you are really concerned with your relationship sa imu bestfriend? How long have you been with her? Please don't get me wrong on this ha? I have a bestfriend as well and we've been friends for like 13 yrs and counting...we fought a lot and forgave each other..we fought super maldita cya but ever since, I never heard her mention about the things she has done for me or for my family. I feel offended a bit lang about the way you say nga you've done everything for her even money matters etc..you know what I mean I guess..and sa imung part pud I find unfair nga ibackbite ka and for ugly reasons pa jud. But it is a good thing you did not make patol sa guy. I admire the respect for your friend though. Talk to her seriously and save the friendship. Trials ra na..okay?forgive her and ask forgiveness pod if she thinks nkasala ka.She'll realize you will be a better company than that guy..Make peace..k?God bless.

[iamMaRiEveLh]

belle, if that's how most people call you, in my own opinion lang ha? Why don't you ask your friend heart to heart talk mo unsa jud feelings niya for the guy. If you were that close to her, I mean dba bestfriends mo? You should've known in her eyes what is inside her heart like when you both talk about that "guy" maka tell man jud ka sa iyang true feelings not just kay niana cya wala cya feeling sa guy you believed right away. Maulaw lang cguro cya muangkon nmu nga naibog pud siya sa guy kay maybe she found out nga they guy cguro talks about you a lot if magkuyog cla sa imu bstfriend mao mura cya na selos. On the other hand, you are really concerned with your relationship sa imu bestfriend? How long have you been with her? Please don't get me wrong on this ha? I have a bestfriend as well and we've been friends for like 13 yrs and counting...we fought a lot and forgave each other..we fought super maldita cya but ever since, I never heard her mention about the things she has done for me or for my family. I feel offended a bit lang about the way you say nga you've done everything for her even money matters etc..you know what I mean I guess..and sa imung part pud I find unfair nga ibackbite ka and for ugly reasons pa jud. But it is a good thing you did not make patol sa guy. I admire the respect for your friend though. Talk to her seriously and save the friendship. Trials ra na..okay?forgive her and ask forgiveness pod if she thinks nkasala ka.She'll realize you will be a better company than that guy..Make peace..k?God bless.

I feel you sis sorry about that but i guess its all bcus na puno jud ko nya and tungog sakong kalagot na storya naku na like murag 'nanumboy naku' its my way of saying nanghinayang kos among kaagi ky ana ra nya dali gub-on among relationship. been w/ her for almost 3yrs paman nuon but for me dugay2 nman jud na.. And about her feelings towards that guy. i think for me wla man jud sya gusto cus as u'v said ur ryt bestfriend mi so naa jud koi idea if naa ba sya feelings or wla and i guess wla. And isa pa that time man gud nag talk me ana sya naa nadaw sya sugtononon nga suitor nya so i guess its clear nga wla jud sya gusto anang lakiha and later on nagka uyab najud cla atong guy nga iya g mean. The sad part is pag buwag nila or basin wla lang ba kaha ko kabalo dugay na nya ni g storya kato nman nga time naka dungog kog storya about lge naku nga ana lge daw "mangelog ug laki" as her bestfrend ofcors nasakitan jud q sa iyang gbuhat nga imbis dri sya mu storya naku iya na nuon gpang storya sa uban and sa libak pajud nga way.. Mao nalibog jud ko asa ko nkasala ana nga way nganu nabuhat nya na nako.. Gusto lage ko makig storya nya sis mao na akong first plan but naa man sad kasagaran ng advice pasagdan nlng daw naku sya.. and keep distance nlng ko nya and later on ma realized nya iyang nabuhat and if ako ng buhaton do u hav any idea unsaon naku pag start nga not to d xtend magsinumbatay mi?..

[prettylicious]

you cannot avoid jud nga magkasinumbatay mo kay dili man jud na mugawas ang inyong mga kalagot but I dunno sa uban kay in my case muhilak ra man ko and like yes magsinumbatay in some ways but its the most important thing in a relationship, be it sa family, sa bf, or sa mga friends, communication jud dapat present. You have to know what she's feeling right now, I am pretty sure she have reasons for that and that is what you need to find out what. I know nga lisud jud magpaubos especially on situations such as this one but every situation is necessary magpaubos arun ma save ninyo ang friendship kana if ganahan pa ka mkig friend sa iya. If sayangan ka sa years you have with her then go and talk to her. Silence isn't always good you know. You have to talk both of you. Ask her why is she avoiding you. Ask her what's wrong. Just ask her unsa iya na feel the past few days or months. Say sorry basin iya gi think nka sala jud ka. God rewards those who are humble and those who deserve. Think of the good times you both have and think about building another friendship that will last for 3 yrs.....and by the way, tell her all that you feel and give her a hug.