Having an affair to move on is ok or not?

[ace_ndahouse]

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I had a girl bestfriend who is my ex also got brokeup with his bf.
One day she told me she had a party the day she arrive in cebu
and told me that she had done ONLY french kiss with a guy she just met
in the club.

What would you do in my part? What will you advice to your bestfriend that
having an affair with another guy is not an excuse to move on with your problem?

At the same time what would you GUYS feel about your ex & bestfriend having a simple french kiss with another guy?

Confuse.

Shall i let her do what she wants and destroy again her life because of a simple break-up?

Post some comments I'll read it tommorow...
Thanks in advance...

[yiennahs]

frenchkiss? as in chula?
my gulay

kuyawa gud niya kachula man dayu siya

[yvonne6]

its her life. she aint a small girl bro. we cant tell how broken she is inside. just remind her as a friend not to do stupid and crazy things she might regret later. other than that, u have no right to stop her of her decisions

[ambotani21]

its more of a 'rebound' thing

[smartmart]

TS, naa man mga babae nga dili ingon ana ka strong to face the hurt alone.. sometimes, an accessory, such as what u have mentioned is needed para maka move on. however, true, maka puno lang gyud xag blema ky instead ma cleaned up ang excess baggage, ma pun-an man.. if u think that this woman has a patterned way of dealing with break ups, like if mag buwag naa na dayon xa puli, then could be dili gyud nya kaya.

however, it is still best to go through the process of hurting and healing kay ma ka learn man ka to be careful next time to see where u made mistakes..

[JeKeRo]

Naa na ka bag.o uyab ron TS?
Tingai paagi sad na niya nga para maConcern ka niya dn gusto sad cguro na cya nga magbalik moh.

Best thing guro kai pasagdi cya.. But just for concern giv her some advice.

[juck401]

just a kiss? is it that new? unless your traditional. if she's single , then why haggle , it's her life, i think that she's old enuf to face the consequences of every action she takes...

[xoedz]

Play with the wrong ones while waiting for the right one.

Let her enjoy her life bro. Bestfriend? Or wala pa mo naka getover ninyo? Or ikaw? Pagbalik nalang mo oi!

Or maybe gipasuya ra ka niya kay X man diay ni nimo.

It's a trap!!! hehe

[ace_ndahouse]

Play with the wrong ones while waiting for the right one.

Let her enjoy her life bro. Bestfriend? Or wala pa mo naka getover ninyo? Or ikaw? Pagbalik nalang mo oi!

Or maybe gipasuya ra ka niya kay X man diay ni nimo.

It's a trap!!! hehe

First of all, Thanks sa mga comments..

Naka get over nmn k..

Here's the story.

Bisag wala na me ky same ra japon among relationship as bestfriend nlng noon.. i know bisag na.a or wala sya uyab ma kuha ra japon nko sya.. in ana pd sya ka inlove nako nga pwde ra nya buwagan iyang uyab daun para dre nako. Ang ako lng ky kaning iyang gi buwagan nga laki ky maoy naka pa usab nya.. from being a wild girl to be a honest and faithful woman.. and now karon nga nag buwag sila ky murag ni balik napod iyang pagka wild.. Na.a pd sya sakit lagi mao nang ako ga pugong2x nya sa iyang mga laag kong mo involve na sa iyang health.. pero kato panang na.a k dha sa cebu.

She's open to me.. Kapila nako ka hatag advice nya when mag broke up sya sa mga uyab nya sang una pero ang karon ky murag nag libog na sya.. sa diha wala na k diha cebu its the time she needed me most.. If i was there instead of mag party2x ky ako lng sya e busy sa laing butang nga dle maka guba sa iyang health. but words ra akong ma hatag nya since layo k..

Naa na ka bag.o uyab ron TS?
Tingai paagi sad na niya nga para maConcern ka niya dn gusto sad cguro na cya nga magbalik moh.

Best thing guro kai pasagdi cya.. But just for concern giv her some advice.

Yes na.a k uyab.. dugay na me.. I much concern jd nya ky ni balik iyang pag ka bata nga murag 16 years old nga makighamag lng diha bisag kinsa..
and thats what im refraining her to.. Lisod na jd kong ma balik iyang pag ka wild..

[JeKeRo]

Yes na.a k uyab.. dugay na me.. I much concern jd nya ky ni balik iyang pag ka bata nga murag 16 years old nga makighamag lng diha bisag kinsa..
and thats what im refraining her to.. Lisod na jd kong ma balik iyang pag ka wild..

Why not settle things frankly, but just a little thing to remind like "handle with care". Kung naa gani cya sa mood take advantage nga makighinabi ka sa iya unya tell her nga dili maau ang ing ana ing ani ana! dn avoid eye to eye contact Lisod na...
wala ra ba kaha cyay uyab? Then tell her at the end of ur conversation nga "Cge hup Friend hupz... yaw na na buhata sunod."