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[diem]

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Hello rainne,

You have an interesting question. I hope that my answers help you in your consideration.

Ideally, money should not be a big factor in a relationship. As long as you spend Time being together, that should be enough. No matter where you go, what you do, even just sit lang and talk awhile-- just being together should be enough.

But the reality is, money is indeed a big factor in today's setting especially if we are talking about nurturing a SERIOUS relationship that will eventually lead to marriage and family life.

So rainne all I am saying is let not the lack of money stop you from simply falling in love, being in love and being loved...

BUT...

If you're planning to take the next step, go to the next level of your relationship, YOU SHOULD SERIOUSLY CONSIDER if you are both stable and ready to deal with whatever consequences that can happen in a relationship. A relationship is as complicated as the two people who are in it. There will be problems, there are always problems.

Please evaluate your life right now, see if there are personal areas that right now need your attention, focus and improvement. What I am saying is perhaps it is better YOU SHOULD TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF, FIRST.

Being self-reliant and independent can help you in getting ready.

A relationship should happen at the right time with the right person, and you can make it happen.

Wishing you all the best in Life and in Love!

[MyMaria]

mao bitaw nay ila gi ingon ni adto.... "bahala'g saging..basta loving..."

pero sa karon panahona... murag di na gyud na pwede... maayo lang na kadtong sa mag taban2x

sa dili kaantigo mo diskarte... no money = frustration gyud

[monrose29]

dako jud ko ayo og rule ang financial nga butang sa atong kinabuhi...

bisan wala pa kay gf/bf/ single or married if wala kay kwarta... kawawang cowboy jud ka..

how much more kong na-a nakay bf/gf/ or ma minyo naka...

unsaon kung way kwatra ang tao?
meaning wa sai uyab?

maka uyab gihapon kay deli mang kwarta ang uyabon ang tawo man.. bisan to-od kong wala kay kwarta ang usa ka tawo basta bo-otan lang og deli basagolero maka uyab gihapon..

pero we have to put in mind nga lisod jud kong walay kwarta..or walay trabaho.. walay source of income.. asa man diay padung ng uyab2x.... simbako lang.. di ra ba jud nato ma tag-an ang panahon kong ma buntis ang girl...... unya prehas mo y kwarta.. wala moy source of income....yayay.... di bahh..

if ganahan ka maka uyab.... dapat andam ka.. na-a kay trabaho.. source of income nmo.. kay sa panahon karon lisod ka ayo kong wa tay kwarta.. or isang kahig isang tuka lang atong tirada.. di mana mag silbi.. what if ganahan makig date atong uyab....mo gasto man jud ta di bah...

at first before ta manguyab.. dapat ato sa unahon atong ka ugalingon sa financial issue...unsa-on man nato pag palit og buwak or chocolate or regalo para sa atong uyab kong wa tay kwarta...

but then again deli ang kwarta ma-oy issue deri..kun deli ang atong ka ugalingon deskarte... bo-otan ta.. deli ta palakero...kong lisod man gali ang pag apply og trabaho.. cge lang agwanta lang usa basta.. mangita jud og trabaho para maka ka-on og maka palit og unsay atong gusto.. og maka la-ag2x.. and then...maka uyab.....



daghan salamat..

Noy_Noah

[dessay]

unsaon kung way kwatra ang tao?
meaning wa sai uyab?

for me no... himuon hinuon ang gugma as a motivation na magka-kwarta.

kung naa kay inspiration, you will know how to set goals to do better with your life and to make that person you love be proud of you.

[nomens]

for me no... himuon hinuon ang gugma as a motivation na magka-kwarta.

kung naa kay inspiration, you will know how to set goals to do better with your life and to make that person you love be proud of you.

Korek!! :mrgreen: Ka bright ba ani ni dessay...
Ako gani, anak man sa pobring O*** pero naningkamot gihapon para naay pangdate.. hehehe..

[edmac]

"Ideally, money should not be a big factor in a relationship. As long as you spend Time being together, that should be enough. No matter where you go, what you do, even just sit lang and talk awhile-- just being together should be enough." quote from diem

i totally agree, spending enough time with your palalab is enough, mao gud ni nakapainlab sa akong misis katong uyab pami.

[nana]

--i miss someone very much.. its like, everytime i see him, i want to hug him and ask if he is coming back.. but i already know that he's not.. and i dont wanna intrude with his relationship with his gf because i know he is happy..--

[Alvintot]

"Ideally, money should not be a big factor in a relationship. As long as you spend Time being together, that should be enough. No matter where you go, what you do, even just sit lang and talk awhile-- just being together should be enough." quote from diem

i totally agree, spending enough time with your palalab is enough, mao gud ni nakapainlab sa akong misis katong uyab pami.

Bitaw Sir, kinsa gud di ma inlove if you devote your time to that person.. hehehe even if in the first stage of the relationship di kaayo ka niya love sure that person will learn in the process

[diem]

--i miss someone very much.. its like, everytime i see him, i want to hug him andask if he is coming back.. but i already know that he's not.. and i dont wanna intrude with his relationship with his gf because i know he is happy..--

@nana, then please leave him be. It would be good for you, as well as for him, if you just let all thoughts, emotions, memories go.

In life the only thing constant is change. Things change, people change, we change. It's we either passively let time's tides and winds sail our lives in its currents or we actively direct our course, using our own moral compass or the stars up high as our guides.

I'm thinking that the guy you're talking about was a special person in your life, who was more than just a close friend and that you've shared some great times together, times you might never forget but don't forget about the people who are your friends now. It is true when they say that one doesn't know what one has untl it is gone-- make the most of what you have now, with those who care for you and with you NOW.

A friend of mine dealt with his heartache this way. It might or might not work for you but there is no harm in trying. My friend wrote goodbye letters to his ex-girlfriend which he never sent but kept himself. He shared his hurt, his feelings and regrets.

He did this over a time and produced about 6 letters. Once in a while he read his letters himself and received a better perspective of his situation. He felt he needed to move on and his own words helped him to.

nana, all the things that you need to make your life happier and better really lies within you. No one else can you make you happier than your self. Please choose your happiness.

Wishing you all the best in Life and Love!

[applepie]

guys, wat wud u do f ur x gets bak to u and wala siyay klaro f makig commit ba siya or dili..but you date and he always communicate with you..wala lang jud siyay clear na intention if makig commit ba siya ug balik..