learning to LOVE him/her

[rainne]

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hey jack_d_wack
ikaw ang dj sa y101?

[rainne]

i agree with starlightexpress21 ..
and kng irason ang pity..
i thnk di na love ui..
imng uyabon tungod naluoy ka?
nya kinsa may luoy in the end ana?

[Streetcar]

We had a discussion like this at work one time with some women. They were talking about what if the person treats you to everything nice like a nice house, cars, home unya kasal mo pero dili nimo love ang tao its just for convenience sa akong tan-aw. I said to this one woman, i dunno if i can do that if i dont love a person. She answered me, yes in time you do learn to fall in love with someone who showered you everything eventhough let's say wala ka gugma at first but oks lang sa imo coz you have no choice and he is offering you all the love and comfort in life. She said yes you learn to love someone like that. For me lang lisud na. I might be unhappy. I cant imagine myself being with someone for convenience sake much more go to bed and share a bed with someone my heart knows and feels nothing for. I just cant do it. I believe i have choices in this life. And that is not the way to go for me in the love area. I will enter into love with all my heart and soul because I love the person not for other reasons. Pero different strokes for different folks. For others yes they can learn to love that type.

[charmz_fire]

is it possible to learn to love someone?

yea.. dghan mn ngkauyab nga at first wala jud cla nafeel sa usag usa..den later on na develop,..den ngpakasal!
but talking to mah self.. its far from reality siguro.. i'll not go into a relationship mn gud if d ko sure nga love jud nko ang tawo. ky wat if pa lang d ko madevelop niya.. so ako ra gehapon ang mgsuffer,...
i dont want to make mah live complicated.. naay way problema.. ngita jud ug naa.. hehehe

[jugs_06]

@mai: right on the spot with that one.. me too, i don't believe that you can actually LEARN to love someone.. loving someone is more of a heartfelt choice, it's not something that is voluntarily learned through the process.. if i don't love you, then i don't love you.. that's what i believe in..

@charmz: hmmmmmm, maybe you CAN learn to love someone, you've got a point.. but isn't it hard if you put yourself in a situation where you desperately try to love someone but deep inside, the feelings is not just there? it's like riding with the flow, "see-where-this-goes" kinda thing.. i don't want that.. not me.. hehe

[Streetcar]

Nah charmz bitaw no bahala na saging ginamos among kan-on everyday basta loving you are korek gyud about that one i agree 100%. Ngano mangita ug problema nga ka peaceful sa imong kinabuhi na tawon. Its like saying, dont fix it ain't broken when you fix it watch mas maguba na nuon samot and you cannot put back the pieces again exactly before you even started fixing it. Same idea applies here.

Jugs, i also agree with your prinsipyo sa love. same here. I stand my ground when it comes to Love. Love is not to be bargained for.

[marcus2015]

possible pud TS...

[petketz]

@marcus- hahaha....unsa man ning styla oi...padako sa post dah....wew

[kimleeKINO_choi]

learning to love someone...interesting...will you finally give your love to the person that loves you out of circumstances / of pity / of responsibility?...

is it possible to learn to love someone?...


i don't know...post ur piece of mind here...

bati mn loving out of pity oie.....
it's still best loving him coz u really do.
Yes, It's possible to learn loving that someone but it's also possible to fall out of love easily if mapugos ra tanan. depende mngud kong inlove na ka daan kai cloud9 jud ang feeling..hehe