reality.....

[cLowNanGeL]

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id rather grow old.. than be with the one i dont love..

[KaTzKi]

i'd rather not get married for the wrong reasons..

[Jacks]

daghan sad baya na mga things i-consider... pareha anang mga taw nga ang marriage gisabot na daan sa ginikanan, nya di nila ganahan mosukol sa parents, nya di nila mahal usa'g usa, pero pakasal gihapon sila, for their parents sake... tingali that is not reason enough for some, but things like that happens...

or what if buotan kaayo ang usa ka person, so pakasal ang other person niya kay boutan man siya... pero dili love ni other person si person, pero kay buotan man, iya pakasalan...

or napamabdusan, nya ila lang to buhat bisan dili gyud nila love usa'g usa, ganahan lang sila, nya in order to give the child a good future or maybe aron inig dako sa bata magdako siya nga legitimate nya naay amahan (or inahan whichever), pakasal sila...

daghan pa kaayo situations pwede ipuno ana... pero given nga wala ko mabutang ana nga situations and i am free to choose without anything that would be a hindrance, then i would rather choose being alone... or marry someone, pero kanang mahal nako, og , mahal sad ko... pero mintras wa pa na abot, alone lang sa... moduol ra bitaw nang right person sooner or later... huwat lang sa... hehehe...

[crinkle]

either way. it's pretty much the same thing. you're just as selfish if you grow old and not get married or you marry someone who loves you but you don't love back. selfish because if you don't get married, you're not following God's command that we should go and multiply and also, you're selfish if you can't love back someone and still promise her/him the through thick or thin; til death do you part "verbiage" coz it's gonna be a one way thing then, right?

[pinkiepooh]

call me selfish but i can't live alone, honestly... i mean, i need that special someone to spend the rest of my life with... i might not love him yet when we get married, but if he TRULY loves me, i'm sure i'd learn to love him too with the passing of time....

[stregnaj_08]

e syempre grow old nlng nga ako nlng usa...dli sd ko gnahn noh nga inig kaslon ko akng mpakaslan kay dli nko love...unsaon...buot hunaon dpat inig kaslon memorable dyd na cya den malipayon ka...i wont force my self to marry someone nga dli nko love...gets...kaw kno beh?

[mELay]

bisan asa basta ma happy kow...

[---y---(@]

I'd rather grow old that marry someone I do not love. I can't imagine kissing someone I do not love... How much more sharing a roof (and a bed) with him. It is like selling myself and making myself miserable for my entire life.

ALthough there is a chance that I may learn to love the person, but that is a risk I cannot take.

[pnk_shadows]

i'd opt to marry someone who loves me. hell, i dont wanna live d rest of my life alone. i'd rather be with someone than be a wanderer, without a reason to go home nor a reason to continue living...i dont think its pure selfishness. it's just human need to be with someone, whether it is for love or jz for the comfort/security it brings. even if i dont love him, it doesnt mean i wouldnt try anyway.

[racir]

i cant see myself marry someone i dont love,... its got to be love so that it will serve the true meaning of "to have and to hold", how can u hold someone u dnt want,.nor have someone that your heart dont want...