Need inputs on my situation. :(

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syempre ni decide sya makig buwag kay dli sya gusto ma.apil ka sa iya problema

Sakto jud ka!

[ambotani21]

Sakto jud ka!

and that is how much he loves you.

[Baeybe_Bryce]

Yes, love him so much, he did this para dko maapil sa iya problema.

And you just agreed?

TS, you're also troubled by the thought of choosing this kind of commitment with an ill guy. If you agreed, well then, maybe he was right. You shouldn't worry anymore for both of you chose what's good for you. I think for you alone. *thinking*

If the guy, really loves you and he decided to end it up this way, hell he's suffering right now. That I can be sure of.

Well, he's a brave man. And he thought of your wellness than his own.

Nah - that reminds me of "Love is sacrifice".

[reginakrys]

kung love nimo cya, mu stay ka, either as a lover or maskin as a friend man lang.. kay claro man kaayo he needs support.. but if dli, hawa nalang kay ikaw ray makapoyan ana..

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And you just agreed?

TS, you're also troubled by the thought of choosing this kind of commitment with an ill guy. If you agreed, well then, maybe he was right. You shouldn't worry anymore for both of you chose what's good for you. I think for you alone. *thinking*

If the guy, really loves you and he decided to end it up this way, hell he's suffering right now. That I can be sure of.

Well, he's a brave man. And he thought of your wellness than his own.

Nah - that reminds me of "Love is sacrifice".

Wa ko khbw unsa ako itubag gud, naglibog ko samot na nga ni sulti xa nga naa xa sakit. And kung dli man pud gani ko mkgbwag, pugson mn pud ko nia pa bwag kay dli lge xa nahan maapil kos iyang prob.

[Dax101106]

Thanks sa imong text...

Most probably ang inyong argument kay murag naka puno siya sa iyang mga problema and sa mga frustrations nga iyang na feel... Theres something gyud nga murag naka pa puno niya... Except lang sad sa mga text niya nimo before nga pangita lang ug lain nga maka hatag sa imong gusto kay murag para nako kay theres something meaning gyud... Sa iyang work man sad gud kay stressful gyud kaayo nah siya... Akong mga ka batch as mga Software Engineers kay tag 4hours nalang kuno ang ilang katulog usahay tungod sa deadline sa ilang work...

Definitely, makapasamot nah siya sa iyang illness karon... BTW, unsa mana iyang sakit diay nga naka ingon siya nga lethal ang iyang sakit?... Leukemia bah nah?... Well, kug mao nah iyang sakit kay lethal gyud nah... Root cause sad gud ana kay kana bitawng walay tarong katulog nya maligo...

Kasabot man pud ko nimo why you sounded like that sa imong uyab kay super busy siya and wala nah
siyay time nimo...

Lethal man gani siya or dili if theres something to fix specially inyong relationship kay fix it... If and only if love pah nimo siya... And i know love gyud nimo siya...

Ayaw siya bya-e sa panahon nga nag need siya ug support sa taw nga love niya and specially nag expect nga naa kah sa side niya no matter what...

He acted that way most probably he dont like you to be affected kung ma unsa man gani siya... Be with him lang gyud sa rainy season of his life... Ara man gud nah siya ma measure ang imong love niya nga wala gyud kah ni biya niya... Kay kung ma OK nah siya nya mo balik kah niya kay OK nah siya definitely maka ingon ang imng uyab nimo nga maayo lang kah kung wala siya problema or sakit kay naa kah... Kung naa man gani siyay problema or sakit kay imo lang siyang bya-an...

Spend the remaining days of his life with him kung nana man gani siyay taning... Para kung unsa man gani ang mahitabo atleast naa kah sa iyang side...

[salbahis]

Yes, love him so much, he did this para dko maapil sa iya problema.

well then be part of the solution, not necessarilly financially but supporting emotionally, will go along way, comfort him when he's stressed..

[carule]

it doesnt mean nga magbuwag namu,mawala naka by his side...
siguro diha ra gihapon ka,,treat him parehas sa imu pagcare niya..but di lang ka maghuwat nga mubawos siya ana...friends man kaha mo?..and love man kaha nimu siya?...kana man gud "mag-uyab" nga term,ihikot man gud mo ana sa usa ka commitment,and basin di siya kacommit iyaha self sa imuha..totally..
ikaw?kaya man kaha nimu nga hatagan siya ug time and love bisag di siya kabawos nimu totally?

[Baeybe_Bryce]

Wa ko khbw unsa ako itubag gud, naglibog ko samot na nga ni sulti xa nga naa xa sakit. And kung dli man pud gani ko mkgbwag, pugson mn pud ko nia pa bwag kay dli lge xa nahan maapil kos iyang prob.

Well, I'm gonna put myself in his shoes.

Okay let's start, I love you, we're together.( I don't think you have questions on his feelings for you right? Okay let's keep it that way.)

Now, I was informed I'm ill and it's kind of lethal as we may call it. I think of my family and my future.

Here's this time that I'm indenial, I don't want to die yet. I don't want to make others suffer because I'm ill. My resorts? Keep myself busy so I can't think about it. WORK WORK WORK. My family will stay with me no matter what and I have to provide. In as much as I want to push them away, obligations will keep them staying by my side.

And about you? (the gf) That's a tough one. Okay I love you and all but I doubt if you'll carry the suffering with me. Maybe I should just set you free, so I don't have to be guilty of making you stay without giving you a choice. So okay you can go, it pains me but yes you can go. If you decide to stay, I'm telling you it will not be that easy. You will see me suffer, you will see my pain. Or guess what, you might see me die - anytime soon. If you will stay, you love me more than I thought you do.


So are you that brave enough of staying for me regardless of what might happen to me, to us?

If your staying away from me is what you're answer is, well then you chose what's best for you. So your love has limits then. You just made me realize that.

CUT.



(oh yeah - I'm getting good at this)





Ts, you decide for yourself na lang. Don't use his "pushing-you-away" so you can justify your choices. He had to do it for you but it's still up to you to decide. Who knows, it's his way of testing your love for him. I know it's unfair if that's the case. If you two can't be together, might as well assure him that you'll be his friend no matter what. Smile na TS, show him the bright side of this all. He needs a smile too, you know.

[jai963214]

TS, mo-share ko ug gamay basin naa kay makuhang pagtulon-an sa ako experience. Sa uyab pa mi sa ako wyf, nagkasakit sya sa lungs, deadly sad kung gipasagdan ra to. sa dihang nasakit na siya unya nag-stay na sa ospital waiting sa sked para sa operation, nakadungog ko ug istorya from a friend kay naghisgot man sila sa kahimtang sa ako ex-GF (kay wyf na man karon). During their discussion niingon daw ang driver sa amo opis nga mas maayo daw nako buhaton kay mo-distansya na lang daw ko or makigbulag kay masakiton daw ako GF. Murag iya gi-mean nga dili maayo mahimo nga asawa ba kay masakiton. I replied, nga ang tanan man dunay katapusan, bsan gani ang healthy nga tawo di man nato ma tag-an ang iya kamatayon.

So mao to successful ang operation, pero duna nay limitation sa iyang mga activities kay nakuhaan gud cya ug usa ka baga. But i remained with her, we get married and were blessed with three kids. Despite her condition puro normal delivery amo mga baby, kalooy sa Ginoo. BTW its our 13th wedding anniversary today.

So TS, do love your boyfriend and be with him, basin pa diay duna miracle ihatag ang Ginoo para sa imo BF. Mao lang ni ako ika-share.