would you hate your in law if he keeps on asking money from your spouse because he is a compulsive gambler and would always make up some excuse to ask money from your spouse and if your spouse runs out of money he would ask from you? if you confront your spouse about that matter your spouse gets angry, and if you confront your in law he would tell your spouse and then arguements start. does anybody have a similar experience? what did you do? and how did you solve your problem.