Arguing Advice

[pusiket]

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in almost all relationships der r arguments.

with relationship problems it is more likely 4 d female 2 bring up d problems, 4 d male to become silent, & avoid confrontation.

d advice 2 d guy is not 2 sidestep d conflict. d female brings it up becoz she values d relationship. at least hear her out, acknowledge her thoughts & try 2 understand her feelings.

d advice to d female is DON'T attack d guy verbally. complain about d problem, but do not attack his character.

[n0stALg|a]

so true!!

some females juz get too naggy about some issues complicating the situation more... and in the end its still us females who gets to be in the losing end... so lesson for women out there dont nag, dont demand too much!!

[SweetCatEyes]

in my case its the opposite. during my relationship before, when there's a problem he always wants to talk about it and confront the issue, i'm (the woman) the one who keeps silent and avoids the confrontation which makes him more irritated because he doesnt know how i feel or what i think and it creates more problem. he always asks me to speak up but i dont because if i do, either I'll cry rivers of tears or give rude words which I will regret later, that's why I always keep my mouth shut. so i dont nag & yet he still left me for another woman. he's now my ex. he!he!he!

[vern]

Here is a bit of advice ... when arguing anything ... make sure you are in the right. Make sure you know why you are arguing. Without proper ground, arguing is a waste of time, energy, and contributes to global warming. Don't bitch for the sake of bitching.

[bLeu_beLLe]

Here is a bit of advice ... when arguing anything ... make sure you are in the right. Make sure you know why you are arguing. Without proper ground, arguing is a waste of time, energy, and contributes to global warming. Don't bitch for the sake of bitching.

hmmm..i'll apply that to all my calls.hehe,OT


Don't bitch for the sake of bitching.... ouch! i think i should remember this more often. i am so like that when arguing with my boyfriend, that is. well, now he's my ex.

[grlnxtdor16]

mao jud bya nah!

tinuod jud!

aku sad gai maka ingun ku nga nagger jud ku at times.usahay paranoid sad.grabe ra sad kaau ku mu demand sa akung partner.mau nlng ka agwanta ra cya.maybe dats the reason sad ngano he is asking or some time.

[pinkiepooh]

i very much like to argue.. of getting my point across and letting the other party agree... BUT! all these changed this year... i've been more like a doormat, just agreeing to other people's views when in fact i know it's bull! i just can't seem to take my stand anymore especially if it involves my guy! yats!!!

[tolstoi]

dont argue with yur bf/gf...make love instead..

[crinkle]

Here is a bit of advice ... when arguing anything ... make sure you are in the right. Make sure you know why you are arguing. Without proper ground, arguing is a waste of time, energy, and contributes to global warming. Don't bitch for the sake of bitching.

a very good point from someone i didn't expect to post here...

[bUrbY_dUll]

yah kinda true though but we have to understand that men can be stubborn sometimes so women should as much as possible hear what he have to say...and vice versa...and the bottom line is that love each other as if the world's gonna end...