UnsaY BaTi Sa SobRa Ka Bo-Otan? TurN-Off DiaY JuD Na? :-(

[vjay01]

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dapat bastos pero medyo maginoo..haha

[inktor]

dapat bastos pero medyo maginoo..haha

hahaha ganahan noon ko babae na buotan pero maldita gamay ^_^

[okimura]

dili sad sobra basin mura nya og flip....

[beyee]

i'll take a guess. what they mean by buotan is that you're too passive. you let things happen to you. you should be more passionate, it breeds insanity. then they'll call you buangon. if that's a problem, well, post it here. i'll take a guess.

Passive? I don't know if that is the apt word.

My friends knew me way back in Elementary days and they see me as the type who doesn't get into fights and who doesn't fight back once provoked. And from my past experience with my ex, my friends always nag me to death to "make demands" to my then bf since I was too lax with him. In a sense that I don't demand seeing him often nor text or call me all the time. I even encourage him to go out with his friends on a night-out. My own reason why I was like that because I respect his space and the last thing I want to do is to be a clingy gf back then. When we do fight, I just keep mum because I'm not the nagging type. I rather make lambing because I want things to go smoothly. And when he did some indiscretions, I get mad at first but I would still accept him because the way to man's heart and conscience is to kill him with kindness... (that's what my Dad taught me though)

If you talk about passion... I have that in my soul in terms of how I pamper my guy not the fiery passion which peeps usually expect. Prolly the ex got tired of what I was to him. And for other guys, they find me too boring because I don't have the naughty side. I believe that you don't have to flaunt the naughty side in you to the public so to be perceived as someone fun. It's just that I only let loose in the right occasion and with the right company


so watcha think? do you still call it passive?

[PeeJ]

dli mana turn off ang mga buotan. maulaw lang sila na manguyab ana nila kai abi nila pari o madre ang ilang mapanguyaban.. hehehe

[ichiriki]

Na experienced ko gyud ni.

Mao ni ang gi ingon sa girl nga akong gi courtan "Buotan man kaayu ka oie, mahadlok ko nga if magkadaun ta, basin mapasakitan ra tika".

Although krn, wala koy kasuko or anything about sa iya. Coz tungod sa iyang pag reject nko, na ila2x nko ang akong GF krn and im very HAPPY! )

[mitch_a888]

peaceful ang life. it's up to you how you'll spice it up para naay thrill and adventure inyong relationship. =)

[ad_dur]

Ang sobra kabuotan ug kahilomon mao nay pinaka deadly kay daghan ng tinagua-an na abilidad. Ilaha lang sad jud ug tarong basin pud Maya na ..

[beyee]

dli mana turn off ang mga buotan. maulaw lang sila na manguyab ana nila kai abi nila pari o madre ang ilang mapanguyaban.. hehehe

LOLs... that could be true peej hehehe.. d pa sila ana, naay motabang nila og ampo hehehe

Na experienced ko gyud ni.

Mao ni ang gi ingon sa girl nga akong gi courtan "Buotan man kaayu ka oie, mahadlok ko nga if magkadaun ta, basin mapasakitan ra tika".

Although krn, wala koy kasuko or anything about sa iya. Coz tungod sa iyang pag reject nko, na ila2x nko ang akong GF krn and im very HAPPY! )

happy for you riki

^^I simply can't get the logic "Buotan man kaayu ka oie, mahadlok ko nga if magkadaun ta, basin mapasakitan ra tika". Why man ing-ani? Naa jud diay plan na magbinoang? Moa jud ni ang kafaet, naay bootan dili sila kay mas adto sila sa mobinoang nila. tsk

peaceful ang life. it's up to you how you'll spice it up para naay thrill and adventure inyong relationship. =)

I know what you mean... there has to be a balance so to have your partner still be interested in you

Ang sobra kabuotan ug kahilomon mao nay pinaka deadly kay daghan ng tinagua-an na abilidad. Ilaha lang sad jud ug tarong basin pud Maya na ..

So true! Mao na noon dapat bantayan labeh na masuko hehehe...


^^ Like a friend always tells me, "Stop being a PUSH OVER 'yee..." Over time, I have acquired to fight back (sometimes hehehe) and not let BS win over me. I have learned to play along with peeps' mind games (only when there's a need) and not be a cry baby forever once I get my heart broken.

I guess being "bootan" now for me is not only being nice to other people but loving MYSELF more by not taking crap from anyone.

Thanks guys for enlightening me on this one

[brian joshua]

bahala nag buotan bey
dali ra na para di boring
go to the world
and cheat...hehe