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[ronna]

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@ anya...

You'll find friends and free comfort here..
I was once like you.. Istoryans helped me move on..

Go back to your own self gurl.. and dont let anyone bring you down... :mrgreen:

[jugs_06]

@anya:

ana jud.. you go girls!! aw girl.. :mrgreen:

[fingolfin]

anya , that's really something. But could i advice you to not depend on the therapist too much. It's the therapist job to make you feel better, in other words, it will be shallow sessions, you won't be able to really let out all your feelings. Please, it is better if you consult a friend, one that you know you could trust. One that could really understands you. Coz a friend not only listens but also can relate to your problem....a therapists can ONLY listen, they just let you do all the talking and ask questions and listenand then try to analyze and then give you advice, which are textbook to them. You need a genuine advice . And you can find them in a friend.

.. and please, do not ever forgive that guy. They say, you can forgive but can't forget. Don't do both. Coz forgiving him is like admitting that you lose the battle/war. And don't try to forget this situation - this "hell", this will make you stronger. For sure you can survive this...... and when another problem arises you can then simply brush it off and say to yourself i've been thru hell and back and i'm still alive.

[charmz_fire]

@anya: pwd pa lang nko angkonon ang ubang kasakit na imong nafeel akong buhaton!

looking at da brighter side mas maayo na tong nahitabo ninyo,.. mas earlier xa ngpakita sa iyang color wala pa mo nakasal. im not saying he did da right thing,.. (ggggrrrr... God knows how mch i hate guys like him!)

hes not worthy sa imong love na gehatag.. let da time heals u! dont rush to forget him. coz da more u try 2 4get someone u love, da painful letting go will become. sometimes we never had to take dat person out of our heart
4 he will always be der no matter how hard we try to drive him away. it isn't his precence dat makes this difficult.
its our stubbornness to accept our destiny that aligns forgetting next to impossible. we keep a cold face but deep in our hearts, der still dat lingering hope for reconciliation. Somehow we still beliv dat we can rekindle small embers & relight da fire that once bound in our hearts. This thought give us hope but it also breeds da seeds of loneliness & despair.
The only way to 4get is to accept that the only way to move on is to look ahead & let the footprints of the past be blown by the winds of time. Only den can our hearts find a partner in the dance of our LIFE & hopefully never get LOST again.
hayyyy.. inshort.. kaya mo yan! its jz a trial to make u stronger.

i can always be here for you. mwah

[jugs_06]

OT: murag sa tanang love problems nga ako na encounter diri nga thread kang anya ang pinaka sakit para nako..

[ronna]

OT: murag sa tanang love problems nga ako na encounter diri nga thread kang anya ang pinaka sakit para nako..

me too...
but gurl be strong...
you need that.. more than anything right now...

[mata_hari]

bitaw ANYA! don't forgive him... as in... ayaw jud! that Bastard deserves lethal injection!

tsk tsk..

This too shall pass!

the hardest thing is that i can't seem to recall some of the things that happened the night i had my miscarriage, everything is all a blur in my head

perhaps that is due to Trauma girl.. that happens... and just like fingolfin said, please do not depend so much on therapy... you could treat yourself better than anybody. we feel your anguish and we believe you could rise up it all... things like this happens for a reason... basta don't give up... you have a colorful life ahead of you!

cheer up!

[zer0_cooL]

sakit jud kaau ang nahitabo nako ron. i was dating someone for around 2 months. den we decided to become serious and exclusive. we lasted for 8 months. to make it short, we went through some rough spots and we decided to cool off. pero kami gihapon daw. that was three weeks ago. we still communicated and all. den he stopped texting and calling me for a week. i just waited and waited for him and nothing ever came. last night, he texted me. he said that he had just gotten married. he got married last monday. to a girl he met about a month ago. sakit jud kaau. but the worst thing about it all is that about a week ago (on exactly the day he supposedly got married), I found out that I was pregnant, and it was his. pero nag huwat ko mo contact cya nako to tell him, so i never got the chance to tell him. I had my ultrasound done and the doctor told me my baby only had 15% chance of survival because of its placement, it was too low. I had a miscarriage on friday night. double ang sakit. ambot jud. karon murag kog bato. wala pa jud ko naka hilak. ganahan ko mo hilak , pero dili man mo.gawas. feel nako mura nakog bato ron.

hala gurl maka relate ko nmo.. pro wla lang ko ma kuhaan.. my baby is alive nd kickin' pro ato story kay almost the same..

[n`gel]

The moment I read her post na sad ko and I felt for her. This happened to me too... cool off kuno then diay to... naa nay laing girl gi ka busyhan. Chakit pero unsaon ta man. Wallow gyud and hilak and mokmok (pero I like your reaction, just be ready kay mobuto gyud ka one day, mura delayed reaction ba). After awhile, ang sakit mawala raman. Time heals all wounds gyud.

I wonder why ha, nga two people can be in a loving relationship (exclusive and all that) and lose respect when magbuwag na, or in your case sakit kaayo iyang gibuhat nimo. FACT: rejection is a hard thing to deal with. Okay lang kung ikaw ang namiya or nakakita ug lain pero kung ikaw ang gibiyaan or giilisan, sakit pas tanang sakit.

Break it to me gently, if you have to then tell me a lie.]

It could have been better if he gave it a little time in respect sa imo feelings. Mao lagi, ironical kaayo ning uyab-uyab. Ug nahimo ninyong duha nga love pag-ayo ang usa'g-usa, nganong dili man mahimong mag renespitaay sa feelings. Kung kinsa ang makigbuwag nga kahibaw pa mo nga inyong bf/gf dili pa ready... hinay hinaya pud intawn. Hatagi ug gamayng respeto ug kaluoy.

I wonder why minyoan dayon niya ang girl. Hmm kalit man kaayo di ba? Know what, one day maka hinuktok na siya and think of what he did to you.

He's not the man for you, mo ra nay buot pasabot. He wasn't mean to stay. You'll be happy, one day. Maabot ra na. God bless you ha.

[quickfist77]

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