Who's to blame?

[monochromatic]

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Kinsa may e.blame ngano na ingon ani ka karon.

Example: Pwerti nimo tapulana or y batasan. Kinsa man angay e.blame ana?

Parents - kay gi tolerate ra ang imo batasan sukad pagkabata nimo.
Yourself - or yourself for being such a dumb ass and got nothing to do just to make things right?

[monochromatic]

For me kay ako kaugalingon pero lisud naman sad gud ko mausab kay 20 nako.. taas na kaau ang lubi.. Im not saying nga wa koy batasan hah? Its just that Im kind of tapulan in our house but in our school and during sa akong intern dli man. Sa blay ra jd. Kamo guyz?

[neurain]

wa koi ma point kai akong mga ginikanan gitarong kog dala diciplina pero wa jud koi simang jud ko usahay gawas jud akong pagka ATIDLAM

[nijazared]

both, parents are at fault for not really doing anything about it and you are at fault for being so hard headed...

[mang jorpetz]

talking about attitude, ig about sa bata about 2-3 yrs old. nana sya idea unsay sayop or sakto...pra nako resposibility sa parent kung unsa imong batasan ig dako na nimo...granted nga ni mature ka and knowing nga kablo ka sayop na pero wa kay gibuhat...aw imo nana oi...di na na kay mama ug papa.

[epoaxlan]

hopefully kids will not blame their parents..lisodaa lagi pag diciplina sa bata maka typhoid fever..

[Klave]

Blame would usually go both for you and your parents.
But talking about the ability of changing yourself with respect to age.
20 is still young enough, it won't be hard to do, you just need determination.
About your exact problem, I don't think it is a major issue as they might be allowing you to laze off as well.
Specially college or at work na ka, dili na kaau mu mind ang mga tawo kung naa baka gibuhat or wala.
Imo nasad mga manghod pabuhata sa chores

[kohaku]

i blame myself for being what i am today, it's all a matter of choices...who you want yourself to be...
i made bad decisions/choices in the past...no looking back, move on, live each day with meaning...

[rjje]

both, parents are at fault for not really doing anything about it and you are at fault for being so hard headed...

sakto jud xa ts. both jud.

[purplecandy]

i think we don't have to blame our parents they tried to give everything we need that in so much love for us, we unintentionally abused them