I think I’m turning bisexual.

[sarah's adia]

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Sorry this is a bit long.

I’m a female in my 20s and I think I’m turning bisexual.

I am currently in a relationship with this guy for more than 5 years now. We’ve been together since college. For the past half-year, we have been living in different cities because of our respective work. We communicate regularly and I do believe that he’s the guy I’m going to marry.

During the time my boyfriend and I have been apart, I’ve been living in an all-female apartment building. There’s this one female resident who I immediately took a liking to. I started getting to know her and found out we had a lot of common interests. I really wouldn’t say that she and I are close friends, more like her set of friends and my set of friends hang out together.

Anyway, at first I thought I like her only as a friend but I realized later on that I like her in the sense that I’m attracted to her. I get this sudden urge to touch her when she’s near me. I started to have dreams about her (and yes, I’m talking about those kind of dreams). I consider my day incomplete if I don’t see her. I even fantasize about confessing my feelings to her, but oh, that way lay madness.

I have always thought myself to be heterosexual. My past relationships were all with a guy. Though there was one time in high school when I had a crush on one of my female classmates. But I chalked that up to teenage hormones.

Of course my boyfriend has no idea at all about my ongoing identity crisis. When I’m on the phone with him, I avoid talking about her for fear that he may suspect that something’s amiss. I do feel guilty for keeping all these secrets from him. Call me selfish, but I don’t want him to think differently of me.

There isn’t anyone I can talk to about this in real life so I’m turning to the internet for advice. So istorya, do you think I’m really turning bisexual?

[Control-X]

I'm afraid you are. But to me, that is fine it isn't your fault at all. You just discovered it. I think it's a good idea to talk to your boyfriend about it personally, in the flesh, rather than him figuring out for himself because you didn't tell him about it.

[gamatoy]

just tell ur bf ts the truth.......dont be afraid to tell ur problem....

[J.Abz]

your just acting normal... of course why wont you love your bff when in fact you've been expose to just all girls environment only. Any given person, if she or he is expose in a surrounding where there's no opposite s_e_x around.. just all the same s_e_x or gender as you are.. you are bound to develop some emotional attachment to that person.

@TS, you should go out sometime with your male friends... bonding time with the opposite s_e_x. It's not that your bisexual... it is your environment where your too much enclose with that's turning you one(a bisexual you say).

Associate yourself with your guy friends.. that's all I can say...

Now if your really think and convince that your a bisexual in any way.. then you might have that feeling long time ago.. it's just hidden somewhere at the repast of your mind... perhaps you have too much insecurities to yourself that you develop fondness for that other girl because you can find all on her as perfect... something that you lack in yourself thereof....

Anyway.. Life is a matter of choice and decision.. Choose the path which you think you'd be happy to... but just bear in mind... Regrets comes always in the end... It's never starts at the beginning...


Cheers!

[cool_romar]

Perhaps this is bisexual tendeny but try assessing your feeling it its really romanti and erotic attration towards that same gender.

[Divemaster]

give it a try, you'll never know until you act on it..., if you do, then you'll have your confirmation

[epoy73]

G to G .... love it

[val17]

wow. be your self TS... just tell ur BF about that.

[cebu.opportunities]

your just acting normal... of course why wont you love your bff when in fact you've been expose to just all girls environment only. Any given person, if she or he is expose in a surrounding where there's no opposite s_e_x around.. just all the same s_e_x or gender as you are.. you are bound to develop some emotional attachment to that person.

@TS, you should go out sometime with your male friends... bonding time with the opposite s_e_x. It's not that your bisexual... it is your environment where your too much enclose with that's turning you one(a bisexual you say).

Associate yourself with your guy friends.. that's all I can say...

Now if your really think and convince that your a bisexual in any way.. then you might have that feeling long time ago.. it's just hidden somewhere at the repast of your mind... perhaps you have too much insecurities to yourself that you develop fondness for that other girl because you can find all on her as perfect... something that you lack in yourself thereof....

Anyway.. Life is a matter of choice and decision.. Choose the path which you think you'd be happy to... but just bear in mind... Regrets comes always in the end... It's never starts at the beginning...


Cheers!

I agree with this TS.
I do appreciate women in any way--beauty, intelligence, confidence, sexiness, kindness, etc but that doesn't mean I'm longing for a female partner. With an environment that we only see only same s3x individuals, we sometimes tend to misinterpret our feelings towards them--romantic or just mere admiration. Our identity is also influenced by the way we think for you are like giving yourself a command that you are so.

It's never too late. Try hanging out with male friends and you'd probably get the answer.

[_hizuka_]

kung ako ang uyab sa TS ok ra nako na, dili bitaw xa mabuntis kay parihas ra babae, so safe ra.