how long can you always forgive the same mistake repeatedly done by your partner?
how long can you always forgive the same mistake repeatedly done by your partner?
depends what the mistake was. For me, if it is infidelity, I can't forgive. Lies, depends.
i believe that everyone deserves a second chance "second chance" not third or fourth, if the mistake is repeatedly done then there's no more respect at all.
depends on the situation... unsa man ang sala?... permi siyang malate? dili siya makatunga sa sabot? (unsai rason) namotbot siya?... (unsa man ang gibotbot)... if ginagmay rah... then i can close my eyes and discuss the matter with him...
pero like dako... example he has another girl then nagstorya namo then balik pah siya... then nasakpan nasad... then balik nah sad... aw... una siguro pwede pang mo piyong og pasaylo.on pero og sige nah... pahuway oizt.... ngita nalang kog lain laki... daghan diha... ngano gud maglabad labad kow sa akong ulo... ahahhahaha....
samok baya ng laki nga puro storya... ang ration kai 5 guys is to 1 girl... so daghan pang lalaki sa world... ahahahaha...
as long as kaya pa nako i handle among relation go..
of course! but the next question is...will you still hold on to him/her?
I don't like a man who don't keep his word. Like he will say "I will pick you up from work after your shift", and then Indian pana. Once or twice I can forgive especially with a good reason. But more than 5, isn't it reasonable to dump him? After all, if I can't rely on him while we're GF/BF, can I rely on him once we're married??
if he keeps repeating the same mistake.. then that means that HE IS NOT SORRY.. so why forgive?! he's just fooling you.
sometimes, loving too much and being forgiving will not teach the person to value you but instead it will give him/her the impression that no matter how big or small the mistake that is done, u will always be there and ready to take him/her back. you should only give the person at least 3 chances, if the same mistake is committed repeatedly, that should be evident that the person does not care about you and will never will. give up!
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