Hello people, I want to share this inspirational story with the thought that it might enlighten someone as I am. hehehehe....cheers!
The Wooden Bowl
I guarantee you will remember the tale of the Wooden
Bowl tomorrow, a week from now, a month from now, a year
from now.
A frail old man went to live with his son,
daughter-in-law, and four-year - old grandson. The old
ma n's hands trembled, his eyesight was blurred, and his
step faltered. The family ate together at the table.
But the elderly grandfather's shaky hands and failing
sight made eating difficult. Peas rolled off his spoon
onto the floor. When he grasped the glass, milk spilled
on the tablecloth.
The son and daughter-in-law became irritated with the
mess.
'We must do something about father,' said the son.
'I've had enough of his spilled milk, noisy eating,
and food on the floor.'
So the husband and wife set a small table in the
corner. There, Grandfather ate alone while the rest of
the family enjoyed dinner. Since Grandfather had broken
a dish or two, his food was served in a wooden bowl.
When the family glanced in Grandfather's direction,
sometimes he had a tear in his eye as he sat alone.
Still, the only words the couple had for him were sharp
admonitions when he dropped a fork or spilled food.
The four-year-old watched it all in silence.
One evening before supper, the father noticed his son
playing with wood scraps on the floor. He asked the
child sweetly, 'What are you making?' Just as sweetly,
the boy responded, 'Oh, I am making a little bowl for
you and Mama to eat your food in when I grow up.
' The four-year-old smiled and went back to work.
The words so struck the parents so that they were
speechless. Then tears started to stream down their
cheeks. Though no word was spoken, both knew what must
be done.
That evening the husband took Grandfather's hand and
gently led him back to the family table. For the
remainder of his days he ate every meal with the
family. And for some reason, neither husband nor wife
seemed to care any longer when a fork was dropped, milk
spilled, or the tablecloth soiled.
On a positive note, I've learned that, no matter what
happens, how bad it seems today, life does go on, and
it will be better tomorrow.
I've learned that you can tell a lot about a person by
the way he/she handles four things: a rainy day, the
elderly, lost luggage, and tangled Christmas tree
lights.
I've learned that, regardless of your relationship with
your parents, you'll miss them when they're gone from
your life.
I've learned that making a 'living' is not the same
thing as making a 'life..'
I've learned that life sometimes gives you a second
chance.
I've learned that you shouldn't go through life with a
catcher's mitt on both hands. You need to be able to
throw something back I've learned that if you pursue
happiness, it will elude you But, if you focus on your
family, your friends, the needs of others, your work
and doing the very best you can, happiness will find
you
I've learned that whenever I decide something with an
open heart, I usually make the right decision.
I've learned that even when I have pains, I don't have
to be one.
I've learned that every day, you should reach out and
touch someone.
People love that human touch -- holding hands, a warm
hug, or just a friendly pat on the back.
I've learned that I still have a lot to learn.
FRIENDSHIP CANDLE NOTICE AT THE END, THE DATE THE
CANDLE WAS STARTED.
GONNA GIVE YOU GOOSE BUMPS.
I am not going to be the one who lets it die. I found
it believable -- angels have walked beside me all my
life--and they still do *********************
This is to you because you mean something to me, I
pray for your happiness. The Candle Of Love, Hope &
Friendship
This candle was lit on the
15th of September, 1998
Someone who loves you has helped keep it alive by
sending it to you.